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SEX IS A COMMODITY
And It Always Has Been
This belief or feeling sex is..you know it depends on what you mean by the word is..happens to be
your morality. Now many don't feel that to be true and don't view sex this way. Sex is not a conditional thing that you can so easily define or state it's existence..and putting it into caps lock won't change this reality. Sex is what I wish it to be..sex is what ever you view it as..and society collectively chooses to make it's own views or is-es on sex too.
Many many many different or possible is-es of sex..
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Degraded, yes; stigmatized, no. In both cases, the patriarchy wins. Men can have their dutiful little slaves at home and their sneaky little bits on the side under the cloak of the black market. And, hey - if they want to take out their frustrations with the wife on some impoverished street-walker, they can do so with impunity - she has no protection and no means of redress. Win-win!
Actually not to be picky or anything..and I know this doesn't really fit into your marriage is slavery theory..but I did qualify my question and you didn't take it into consideration when answering it..so even though my question is sitting up there above your response in an attempt to appear like it was being answered... I don't really feel like you addressed my question at all..to quote myself..
"You claiming this is the same argument one can make for the housewife must mean that you believe being a housewife is degraded in society and stigmatized as much as a prostitute and in some way this role as a housewife harms society. " **qualifier in italics**
Again do you feel that society degrades the housewife as much as they do the prostitute..they should be at least somewhat exchangeable to make the comparison you keep making. And do you feel that this degredation is so openly held, in practice and believed that a housewife is in some way detrimental to society and how they view women as the role of a prostitute is?
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Absolutely. If that rearing and cooking and cleaning and servicing has no guaranteed wage, no benefits, no paid vacation, and is entirely dependent on the male, absolutely.
Huh? I just don't understand why you keep going with this ridiculous argument (marriage=slavery)even just the law is far from your bizarre perception of marriage. If I decided my husband was a scumbag and I wanted a divorce, not only could I willingly do so since I happen to not be his slave or his property, I could ask the government to legally require him to pay me monthly/weekly for my rearing of his children. I could ask them to enforce him to pay me just to be me and to live the rest of my life..not as his wife mind you. I could ask for additional funds for food allowances, family vacations, or other services. There is already governmental guaranteed wages, benefits etc for spouses. Also if my husband decided to keep me locked up at home..and not provide me with some form of compensation for my services..oh like food, clothing, shelter, medical attention etc. then he would be committing spousal abuse.
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The wife in this "traditional" scenario is entirely dependent on the husband. Like you said, he earns the income, he controls the money. He can allocate or withhold as much or as little as he likes. The wife is at the mercy of his will. Okay, she could stop doing the cooking and cleaning and could withhold the sexual favors - and he could desert her. The legal sex worker would be in charge of his or her own income. It's all a matter of who controls the money.
Again as the wife of my husband
by law I am entitled to shared rights or as you say control to any property he may own and any funds he may have. We call these property rights and women in our culture have them.
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Sorry, cannibalism is not comparable to any other meat. It can lead to prion diseases like kuru and Creutzfeld Jacob disease which affect the brain and result in dementia, paralysis, and death - whether the flesh is raw or cooked. It is a taboo based on direct bodily harm. It is not an "ew" issue or a morality issue. It is a health issue. It is not comparable to prostitution on any level whatsoever.
Yeah I got the whole BSE thing the first time around but the same can be said of beef..and eating beef is still legal. The health issue or risk I was saying was constant in all meat eating was death...not one particular disease. Eating chicken can kill you as can pork..neither of which are illegal. One of which also carries a moral stigma globally too.
I do understand it is not comparable to prostitution..I wasn't doing that.. as I already explained I used all these examples to show that the argument that morality should never be governed isn't very realistic.
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You are very much mistaken. What I, as a predominately gay man, am interested in is giving sex workers the right to earn their income without fear of arrest and imprisonment, giving their clients the right to avail of their services without fear of arrest and imprisonment, allowing both sex workers and their clients to engage in business without fear of contracting or spreading HIV and other STDs, freeing sex workers from pimps and allowing them to set their own standards in terms of pricing, working hours, and services offered, and taking the entire profession off the black market. The "cause" for which I am parading down Main Street is the elimination of an otherwise innocent criminal class and the setting of basic worker and consumer standards for a vast and currently unregulated industry.
First what does your sexual orientation have to do with this conversation?
How would decriminalization not address your interests you have listed above?
Now what you have failed to explain was why do we have to go one step further and actually legalize prostitution and regulate it and create it into an industry. How will this better address your above concerns than decriminalization will?
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Of course this will mean government definition and regulation, just as the government defines and regulates food service, taxi service, or bar service - and it will involve sex workers paying income tax. But I am certainly not advocating that the government be any more of an imposition than they are in any other service industry.
Have you ever even made yourself vaguely familiar with what codes, regulations and laws the government here in America enforces or imposes on all the service industries Or even prostitution (Nevada)? let's take my industry for example..the food industry..I can't cook a burger for you..even tho if you asked and I agreed..two consenting adults made the decision..rare. I can't decide to make one single table in my restaurant unaccessible to you if your are in a wheelchair..I can't deny you service if you are black even if I felt it was detrimental to my business. I can't choose to not allow a disease infected person service even if I felt it was a health hazard. So are you saying you want all these laws imposed on women when they sell sex and that in doing so it will in some way or another allow women more control when selling sex?
What it is you really wish to have happen is for the government to become the "pimp" and of course the women remain the whores..only you offer a kindler gentler pimp then the one they have out in the wild. What a wonderful solution.
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All I would expect the government to do is issue licenses and collect taxes. I'm not quite sure what else you're suggesting is part of my "parade".
So you not only wish to legalize prostitution but redesign how our government regulates industry all together. Sorry but the government does not just issue licenses and collect taxes in regards to
any industry.
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There's nothing to refute it either. But there are similar models - like the prohibition of alcohol.
We aren't talking about alcohol..which happens to be a inhuman object. Unless you are saying a bottle of whiskey is comparable to sexual actions in our society. Or that society is somehow enlightened if it views women, their bodies and what we can do with their bodies equivalent to a bottle of booze. How is this empowering?
All one has to do if they wish to is look at a true comparative model...
Nevada...the pimp state..tells it's whores that they can not refuse clients unless they give what the pimp (the state of Nevada) deems an appropriate means of refusal. The pimp (that would be the state of Nevada again) tells it's whores that they can only work three nights straight..got too many kids to feed to bad you filthy whore we set the rules. Nevada aka pimp daddy tells it's girls how much money they must pay to management. Wanna step outside and go for a walk..the pimp says.. ain't gonna happen you are just a ho and we can't have you walking around the streets and you aren't just any ho your the state of Nevada's ho so you will lie and do your work where the state says you can. Doesn't this all sound so empowering and liberating! What a complete advantage this must be for the people of Nevada..all except the prostitutes. And that is just it..that is how this whole thing is sold and packaged. Oh we don't want to tell you what to do..we don't want to control your actions as an adult we just want to make it legal. And then tell you where you can do it, for how long, who you can and can't do it with and how much you have to pay to do it. It is all about control that is what it means to govern..to control. To make legal is to gain control of. So again please explain why you feel making prostitution legal is more advantageous to our society than it would be to decriminalize it.