I agree with
Julian. Americans should be proud of their nation after all, in the greater scheme of things the USA has stood for more good than bad.
With regards to Americans abroad: My first experience of Americans abroad was only from TV. For the first many years of my life I only met one American and he was a street cleaner in the UK who after a while told me to F---- off.
Apart from
this, this and
this were my only understanding of who the Americans were and as a small boy I loved them all.
It wasn't until many years later, in the Danish military that I met my first 'real' Americans and I was not impressed by their loud, brash and apparently arrogant manners. These were USAF service personnel at Ålborg Air Force base in circa 1989. I was there being trained to use the LMG and for several days we ate in the same canteen as these Americans. Since I was the only Dane present with totally fluent English I became a focus for their attentions. On the whole I found them to be very insecure and uncertain and I came to the conclusion that their loud obnoxious manners were a mask for this. Most of the Danes in my class didn't like them at all. I wasn't particularly happy about them either.
In another incident, also due to my language abilities, I was called upon to be a translator during a mock interrogation during an exercise. Later, when our part was over, I spent the better part of an afternoon with a Ranger from, (if I recall correctly), Baltimore. I've forgotten his name, but he was a very well spoken and intelligent man who was very curious about my thoughts on the differences between England and Denmark.
After I left the military I met a few other Americans in my home city of Århus. Some were friendly, others were shallow and deceitful. One in particular seemed to be very callous and hurt my feelings on numerous occasions.
Every so often, during the summer, tourist ships come to Århus and American tourists flood the center of the city, passing through on their way to more interesting, more historical places. Århus has a
cathedral from the 1200's and this is a very popular tourist attraction, especially it seems for Americans. On one occasion I was seated at an outside café by the cathedral and two elderly Americans sat at the table beside me. Obviously worn out by tramping about the city they soon engaged me in conversation.
Now, in doing so they broke a slight social taboo in that Scandinavians are not like Mediteraneans, one does not casually interrupt other people in public here. To do so is not exactly rude, but it can be considered unusual, if not annoying.
I was surprised to be spoken to for no other reason than for the delight of my conversation. I soon learned that Mr and Mrs Allen were from Delaware and were quite surprised by the high prices in Norway and Denmark. When I replied in perfect English (which they found amazing), I had to explain my whole life story to them. I did so and in return learned about their children and granchildren (none of whom I can remember now, except that their son was a dentist.... I think)
The gradual point I am trying to make, is that I have actually never met a rude American tourist. On the contrary I have found Americans to be among the most charming (though overly chatty) of people and since I speak English, as do most Americans, very easy to get along with.
If I have any complaint to make against Americans in this context, then it is the observation that most Americans seem to be very naive. Often they betray a deep ignorance in their opinions with regards to the world outside the USA (and this is something I've noted, to a lesser degree online as well) but since no one owns a monopoly on ignorance I certainly can't hold this against Americans.
With regards to culture I would add that McDonalds is not culture. fast food is culture perhaps, but not McDonalds which is simply just a brand name.
American culture for me, is everything that represents the spirit and art of the people of America, not their commercial interests which really differ in few ways from any one else's.
To have to nail down what culture is is very difficult and to isolate one nations culture from another is even more so. Whistling the tune from 'The Twilight Zone' for example is fairly universal (Sorry
Haleyanne,

I've been doing that for about as long as I can remember) but I think its on the right track as a description of culture since its a description of something understood and shared by the people of a culture.
Of course it seasier to identify specific aspects of Danish culture because Denmark is so small and insular and easily defined... America, sprawling, global, one vast fairly transparent ethnic family, is less so.
QUOTE(Haleyanne)
(2) Additionally, Americans believe optimistically, that they can turn their lives in a different direction at any time. Just because someone has worked for 10 years, say, as a factory worker, doesn't stop that person from quitting, going to university and then graduate school and becoming any number of things: lawyer, doctor, professor etc. I lived in Europe for two years, and I never saw this kind of acceptance for change late in one's life.
In my opinion, such a change is very common here. I know lots of people who did this (I did it myself though I wasn't actually that old) and I think it makes an awful lot of difference where in Europe you are...
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