QUOTE(SuzySteamboat @ Jun 29 2005, 03:30 PM)
I'd say phenomenons such as Enimen and the Beastie Boys are but two indicators that black culture, for the most part,
is American culture. Which would be the first thing wrong with those of the "they need to assimilate" mindset. I have severe issues with the idea that we need to assimilate
*, mainly because that's code for "act white." Whenever someone says "American culture" in this context, 9 times out of 10 they are referring to white culture - as if whites are the only people who live in America, or have some sort of monopoly on what should be the cultural standard. Honestly, what does that mean? Should we all dye our hair blond and get toupees? Watch Friends and listen to Faith Hill?
This thinking is dangerous, if not outright denigrating. Cultural standards on acceptable behavior, language, and dress shouldn't be up to the preferences of one race. And yet, that is the reality that blacks have to live with now. For example, I know right now that my haircut is generally inappropriate for professional atmospheres, and so if I wanted a job at a place like that, I would be prepared to get a more professional hairstyle. But honestly, what does that mean? I know of many black women who work at places where it's thought that cornrows are unprofessional, and that's nothing but racist. Braids are not unprofessional, nor are dreadlocks. It's all a matter of how you do them and how well you maintain them. But for many, the idea of a "professional" hairstyle for women involves sleek, straight hair. What if I was someone who'd never gotten a perm? Is natural hair "unprofessional?" Should I be expected to shell out forty dollars a month to get my hair chemically treated and my scalp burned, plus another sixty dollars a month in upkeep appointments just so my hair is the same texture my white counterparts naturally have? Are daishikis and muumuus any less professional than yarmulkes and headscarves? What makes the peculiar cultural habits of Italians, Greeks, Chinese, Japanese, French, Italian - any more acceptable than the cultural habits of blacks?
*every time I read this topic, I play "Assimilate" by Skinny Puppy. It makes for good times. 1. Black culture and African culture are no more related than southern American culture and Russian culture. The generations of removal from Africa have proven time and time again that "black" culture has evolved into what it is today. What it
isn't is African. So, why that awful term
african-american???? The point is that there is an absurd notion in
politically correct American society that the term "African-American" is acceptable. It's an insult to every civil rights leader, every soldier, and any proponent of equality or freedom that has come before them. I applaud anyone that wants to take a trip to Africa to see exactly how "alike" they are or aren't....
2. Determining what is "professionally appropriate" is completely dictated by the environment you're in. Frankly, Mo-hawks, purple dyed hair, or any other hair style related to white "alternative" culture is generally unacceptable. Why should "corn rows"??? Why is it
racist? ? If I can't have a mohawk, why the heck can anyone else have a "less-than-acceptable" hair cut just because now it's a cultural icon???

... Where else in the world do people have corn-rows whom are in positions of power or business leadership?
3. If Dashikis are acceptable, how about overalls?? I grew up wearing overalls (being from the deep south) and believe that they should be considered professional. I could press the pants in a crease and ensure their cleanliness daily. Professional dress is something that has evolved over time to what it is today. However, even that varies dependant upon geography and working conditions. For instance, short-sleeves are acceptable here in Dallas, but not at our corporate HQ off Wall St. Your logic, or
lack there of is completely based upon the idea that limiting something that black people may or may not due, is completely based upon their skin color. That's ludicrous. Headscarves?? Really. How is that related to someone's race (unless of course you're eluding to a religious scarf).
I don't believe in "assimilation", as that implies that a whole demographic of America is somehow inherently unable to
be a part of our culture.... whatever that may entail.
In America, we're divided politically, geographically, economically, and socially
far more than we're divided racially.
Think about it.... how many times do you go to your local bar and see a southern white christian republican hanging out with a northern black liberal??? Let's be more realistic. For the most part, liberals are associates of like-minded people, as are republicans. Christians associate with other Christians. Rich people, poor people, Southerners, Northerners, Old People, Young Peopl Conservatives, Liberals, etc all generally fall into the "birds of a feather" category. Funny how
none of those labels address skin color...
As I've said till I'm blue in the face. I feel like I have more in common with a youg black christian man from the south than I do with a New England Liberal Athiest. I can tell you for sure who I'd be more comfortable with... and he wouldn't be white...
Finally, it's not about assimilation, it's about acknowledging the fact that there
are divisions or differences in American culture that often times have nothing to do with the color of someone's skin. Acknowledging the idea that morals, values, and lifestyles have far more to do with the way people socialize.