Where should we draw the line between English that's too high-falutin' for AD and English that's too dummied down for AD? There really isn't a "line" to be drawn with language online. When attempting to get a point across, it is our job to do our best to be understood. If in the attempt, we find that some misunderstand our meaning, the discussion is best served by going back to the point in question and attempting to explain it further. It does no good to suggest the person misunderstanding our position is lacking in language skill, purposefully misrepresenting what we said, or say that we were misunderstood but then note explain how.
For example, the above paragraph. Most will read it as it is intended, a suggestion directed towards everyone, nothing more. However some, based on past experiences, could potentially read it as being negatively directed at them. I could, knowing my intent is to speak generally and offer advice, simply leave it as it is, ignoring any potential misunderstandings. Or, knowing that some may take it differently then I intended I can change it, eliminate it, or take the time to further explain that it is not directed at anyone and is only intended in the spirit of general advice to all on

. As you can see, for this post I chose the 3rd option.
Communication is a skill. To communicate, we need to ensure we are understood. This is why, when addressing a wider audience it is best to work with the more common usage of language. However, there are times when we feel a need to use an more uncommon usage, archaic word, etc. In those instances, it is best to take a moment to explain it further to avoid potential communication breakdowns that are likely to follow.
I agree with
Logophage. The hardest thing to learn when using an online medium to communicate is that it is difficult to project subtext when we lack vocal tone, eye contact, body language, etc. This can be mitigated to a point through the use of Smilies. That is one reason they were created, and is often the reason people use them.

If we wish to be understood we have to be diligent. We need to be wary of how our words can be perceived. When writing, we should try our best to avoid wording that can be taken multiple ways. If we cannot avoid it, we should take the time to explain in further detail as to how it is we mean it, what our intent was. Of course, sometimes we just don't see it coming.

In those instances, a civil response, geared at explaining our intent is the best approach.
In life, perception is often more important then intent. We see this in politics all the time. Someone says something that can be taken multiple ways. The person's supporters tend to assume the intent one way, while their opponents assume the intent another. The public, will perceive the intent based on their own experiences, while the Media will take it whichever way will generate better ratings.

We see this in the business world as well. For example, every company has a sexual harassment policy. And every company I ever worked at has a policy that basically said intent is irrelevant. If the offended party perceived what was said as offensive, then the comment, regardless of intent is considered offensive and is treated as such. Of course that treatment varies from company to company and situation to situation but the bottom line is, more weight is given to perception, then to intent.
Is this fair? No not really. Though seriously, how much is life really is? However, when there is a communications failure, often times it is the communicator, not the audience that is at fault. reevaluating the situation objectively, and making an attempt to clarify our actual meaning is the best response. I have failed in my attempt to communication this on

countless times.

The best I can do when this happens to go back to the point I was trying to make and address it from a different angle.
It is always better when trying to convey our position, to use more words then we might see as necessary to ensure that we are understood. I frequently recommend to others that before posting, then walk away from what they have written, come back to it later, and re-read it as objectively as possible with an eye on what could be taken multiple ways. Once identified, we can usually address these potential problems with further explanation, or a re-write in an attempt to prevent misunderstandings from the beginning. As a side note, I also frequently recommend that people highlight their entire post and hit copy. This way, it is still on the clipboard in the rare instances when the post doesn't....well....post.
QUOTE(Erasmussimo @ Aug 28 2005, 07:47 PM)
QUOTE(Jaime @ Aug 28 2005, 04:08 PM)
On the topic of language, I have to wonder about the wording of this very question. High-falutin'? What does that even mean? Seems rather belittling, honestly.
I chose that term because I have generally been more on the high-falutin' side, and so I felt that some self-deprecating terminology might help prevent the discussion from growing heated.
I can see what you were attempting to do there. But I, like others did not see this at first, based solely on that original wording. Perhaps adding (like myself

) or maybe what you did later in another post which was "(self-deprecation here)" , after "high-falutin' would have projected that intent to more readers. How others perceive what we say is key to being understood. In the above example of your attempt at making fun of yourself, you didn't really point that out in what you wrote, at least myself and some others didn't take it that way. Can you see how, more information could have possibly clarified this? Sometimes the point of what we say is lost to others when we try to be "succinct and to the point"
QUOTE(Erasmussimo)
Yet I remain uncomfortable with the vagueness of the minimum standards for this site. Not that I can offer anything constructive that would allay my unease -- it's a very difficult problem. I have already written and thrown away about ten paragraphs of material for this posting, trying to articulate the problem in a tractable form. At this point, I can only muse aloud over the problem and hope that others, in attacking in from different angles, might help clarify it.
Thats understandable. Personally, I find it best to reiterate my meaning in multiple ways. The hope, is that someone misunderstanding one approach will understand another and back-track. In the end, the best teacher of what works and what doesn't is experience. you said elsewhere that you can be dismissive. My suggestion would be that you try not to be too quick in writing off what others have to say when they take issue with what you have posted. Your intent, was likely lost in their perception. Try to take cues from their response and cover the point in question again, this time with an eye on attempting to make your point more understandable to the person or person(s) taking issue with it. That is the best we can do, and all we can ask of each other.
I both envy and pity your ability with language
Erasmussimo.