EH:
I will have to disagree. Maybe your experience was one of blissful ignorance of the horrors of Marxism-Leninism-Stalinism, but maybe that was because your mom and dad, or some other family member, didn't do anything to make the regime a tad bit angry. I say that because I know, to a certainty, that if they had made the regime a tad bit angry, your experience as a child would have been wholly different. Just as it is with all those Cuban children who, according to Human Rights Watch and its sources, have to listen to teacher tell them that it isn't defected daddy who is your father, but Fidel. And truth otherwise be told, by definition, in a totalitarian state, the state owns the total human, every man, woman, and yes, child.
You also said:
Ask any other member who was born and raised in Soviet Union whether they would rather have their childhood with parents in Soviet Union or with distant relatives in prosperous but foreign country. No need. I've already seen the videotape and I've already spoken with any number of Vietnamese and Khmer who put their kids on the proverbial last plane out while they stayed behind. And they've told me that as painful as it was, that they'd do the exact same thing again, if need be. But more of my response to your request in a bit, so hang in there....
I would otherwise suggest that you speak with Mrs. Cohen [http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/americas/629498.stm]:
"My children are simply hostages of the Cuban authorities," she says.
"I have no doubt about that now. Their father thought differently - against what the government stipulated. As they cannot get him, they are holding me and his family instead."
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The rallies shown every day on television demand the return of Elian Gonzalez. The propaganda talks about the importance of fathers and denounces the political manipulation in Miami.
Lazara sympathises - but cannot help thinking of her own family.
"And my children. What are they being used for?" she asks."
And here is how the Cuban state, as parens patriae, treats its children:
"Her younger sister, Yanely, had her marks reduced last month for not attending a send-back-Elian rally."
Oh, sorry, let me interrupt. For those speaking this inane nonsense about science being nothing but science, please speak with the Cuban authorities about Yanely's school marks. Thanks.
Now, for the second installment on my response to your request re persons to speak with, and thanks for hanging in there:
http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2000/03/...lian/index.htmlSo please do not speak such nonsense about having a good life, and then being able to decide for himself what he wishes his life to be. Those things don't exist in a totalitarian state, left, right, or otherwise.
And the part from Salon that validates or verifies what I said above and which otherwise stands in rather stark contrast/opposition to what you claim to have been your experience/desire:
"Nor is Elián the only Cuban child who, in the years since Castro gained power, has wound up in the U.S. without his parents. In 1960-1962, more than 14,000 children were sent out of Cuba to the United States, on their own; their parents resorted to this desperate step after the Castro regime started closing down Catholic schools and shipping children off to study in the Soviet Union. As Cuban-born journalist Yvonne Conde documents in her 1999 book "Operation Pedro Pan," 70 percent of the children who left in this exodus were separated from their parents for at least a year; a few were never reunited.
When Conde surveyed former Pedro Pan children, many described painful feelings of grief and loss. Nevertheless, 85 percent were glad that their parents had gotten them out of Cuba."
14,000...at their parents' request. And since people are indeed alike all over, so too with the Vietnamese and Khmer that I have spoken with and otherwise referenced above.
And for cruel irony, the author of the Salon piece was, like you, a resident of the evil empire. So I've answered your request.
Now, compare Ms. Young's parroting the correct tune to Yanely's getting her marks lowered. As I said, people are alike all over.
And, lastly, compare my "rant" re "parenthood" on that other thread concerning a Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals decision with my remarks here. You will find no more faithful and friendly advocate of parents than me. And not because I have all that much respect for parents [not saying that I do or do not], but simply and only because it's not my child and who am I to arrogate to myself the power to decide what's best. So I too am in that respect as equally conflicted as Ms. Young, and I too come to the same end as she...and, yes, as the man said in the movie, it's all one big shite sandwhich, and we're all going to have to take a bite....but then again, I suppose the Spaniards among us are right, where there is love, there is pain...
Edited to add:
http://www.pearlfilms.com/CubanPsychiatry.htmlhttp://www.capmag.com/article.asp?ID=2925Yeah, no milk after age 6 and compulsory education ends at 11 [so more than a few can go to work in the field while they hear Castro proclaim, rather loudly, that there is no child labor in Cuba].
Edited again to add:
La Herring Rouge: crossover to the, is America fascist thread? That last link I just added proves who the modern day American fascists are.