Should employers provide maternity leave for female employees?Yes. This is the law in the UK (recent changes have now introduced compulsory
paternity leave as well, which is no bad thing).
From memory, mothers now get up to six months paid leave, and up to six months unpaid leave. This usefully gives employers the option for fixed one-year contracts, which cost them less money than using a temp agency, or than employing a permanent worker. It still costs them up to six months' maternity leave, of course.
I am only guessing, but I'd imagine that for every woman who abuses the company's trust (as in your example), there is another who can't wait to get back to work as soon as she is physically able.
If so, what are the moral or ethical standards by which it should be administered and used?I think the golden rule of employee benefits should be that they should be as generous as the employer can afford, but that employees should not abuse the trust placed in them.
As
Gray Seal point out, enlightened employers will offer generous benefits to attract and retain staff. (Where we differ is that I think government has a role in legislating to 'encourage' employer enlightenment by setting mandatory minimum standards.)
Sooner or later, staff who abuse employee benefits like this will need to get another job. Past employers are entirely within their rights to comment on the circumstances of their leaving.
If an employee takes maternity leave and then decides not to come back, should she be required to reimburse the employer for the benefits provided?In this case, for example, maybe the mother should have been required to give the employer advanced notice (say, three months in the British system) during the unpaid leave period on pain of clawback. The mechanics of the clawback would be contentious in themselves - by definition, she is no longer being paid until she returns to work, so there are no wages to retain. The legal costs of recovering the money will weight most heavily on the small businesses who can least afford abuse of maternity leave. And the threat of prison for such mothers will benefit nobody - employers don't get their money back, and the child (who has to be the only party that will be entirely innocent in all circumstances) will lose their mother, albeit temporarily.
So it's a thorny problem whichever way you look at it. I'm not sure what the solution is.
But your point that people without kids are usualy expected to pick up the slack is part of a wider problem, I think. Parents often get to have time off to look after sick children. This is reasonable and necessary - SOMEONE has to look after them, and usually it SHOULD be the parents. But should their colleagues be expected to 'pick up the slack'
for no extra reward?
Some to that, smokers take more breaks during the day than non-smokers. The non smokers have to cover their telephones, if not actually do their work for them. Do non-smokers get extra break time? Nope.
The truth is, businesses rely on conscientious workers to fill in temproary gaps in their resources, however they come about (unnecessary or badly-run meetings take more people away from productive work than any amount of sprog-dropping, smoke breaks, etc, and they are seen as necessary by the people that organise them), and they rely on not having to pay these conscientious workers (I believe the proper term is 'mugs') any extra to do it. I can say this with some confidence, since I've always been such a mug myself.
How can we solve this? We probably can't. Maybe us mugs should just never expect any praise or reward.