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Do you feel it is a woman's right to be injured or maimed by an IED in the name of "equality"? If such a woman were my wife or daughter, I would have to forcefully disagree with you, but I respect your wish to be allowed to enter harm's way for your country. However, I don't know very many liberal women that sign up for the military, so the situation tends to be pretty academic for them. They can make it into a cause celebre to trot out gender inequity while facing none of the harsh reality that the position brings. Very convenient.
Why do you feel it is more tragic for a woman or as you personalized it..your wife or daughter to be injured or killed, than it would be for a man..or to again personalize it a husband or son? Why does the woman warrant more protection?
I feel it is a woman’s right as much as a man’s to have self determination. If a female feels her life is best served by serving her country by entering the military then yes that is her right to choose.
And the right for women to be allowed to make such choices hardly came about by convenience, and our desire to celebrate such accomplishments is from pride and gratefulness for our successes within a struggle. Gender inequality in and of itself is a harsh reality.
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Well, ask a forensic scientist that needs to tell which person a hair or a clump of skin cells came from while investigating a crime scene. They will be able to give you a very specific and precise definition that most of the medical and scientific community supports.
Yes well we all have seen CSI et al. and all know that they can do the same for paint chips, textile fibers, ink, bullets etc. I think you misunderstand my use of separate and distinct or as you termed it personhood.
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If that's the case, then why not declare open season on fresh neonates? Your 2 week old baby is your property, right? That means that if I crush its skull in, or better yet, suck out its brain with a vaccuum, I've committed a property crime against you, but not murder, right? Go ahead and put a price tag on your baby, and I'll pay the fine. Gross misdemeanor, maybe even a felony, but certainly not manslaughter, right? Isn't that the logical conclusion of this train of thought?
I can’t even follow what train of thought, logic or argument led you here, perhaps none exists. I think you are just trying to bully me with this argument.
Who has argued for children being considered property?
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Interesting. Well, I don't agree that non-consentual sex is unethical or immoral. Thus, I believe we need to authorize all forms of sexual contact without restriction, and I demand my natural right to exercise this behavior. I'll be coming over to your house later to discuss why we don't need to agree on definitions or ethics or morals. What's that you say? You'd rather live in a "theocracy" than my "democracy"? Interesting how that works.
Again more bullying, seems your means of debate here is to somehow threaten me with murder and rape as a result of my own argument. Democracies are notorious for recognizing individual rights as well as majority demands. It is a constant balance but it is one of the most important distinctions of a free and democratic nation. Some of us feel that pluralism is one of the most important principles in our society.
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Well, we at least need to agree on what constitutes a "person", don't you think? After all, aren't you at risk if you can't get all of us to agree that you're a person? I mean, if there's some doubt that you're a person, then there's some doubt as to whether you enjoy the same Constutional and legal protections as I do. I might think you're a rutabaga, and eat you. Rutabagas don't have a Constitutional right to be eaten, but they don't have a right to not be eaten, either. Isn't it just a pointless "philosophical question" as to whether you're a person or a rutabaga? I think it's harmless philosophy, and I'm firing up my wok even as we speak.
You said personhood, not person as in human being. I think you are purposefully altering and playing loose with your words here. Are you claiming you are unaware that the concept and definement of personhood is not in agreement ? And heavily relies often on one’s religion, philosophical, spiritual and personal beliefs?
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Interesting. Well suppose that my religion involves capturing young maidens (like Elizabeth Smart) and taking them back to my harem...err, "sanctuary", for "indoctrination" into my "faith". That's rather personal, don't you think? Should the state be allowed to regulate my behavior? We're talking about something profoundly spiritual to me! Of course, I shouldn't have to spell out that the problem here is that the "maidens" have rights too, and those rights should not be unduly superceded by my right to exercise a very personal and spiritual aspect of my religion. If a fetus has rights (even very limited rights), then put it in Elizabeth Smart's shoes and follow the argument.
The state does have “religious exemptions” and I don’t think these exemptions exist as prevalent and widely recognized in regards to any other situation as they do with the parent child relationship. This includes issues like denying children’s rights, health concerns, abuse, neglect and yes wrongful death. In 44 states it is legal to allow a child to die a painful prolonged death from injury or illness, some of us would consider it torture, even when medical treatment is available because of not that child’s right to live or die but the
parent’s right to religious practice.
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Obviously I'm not going to contend with the fact that human males inseminate human females. But I dare say there are millions of willing (even, dare I say it, "joyous"?) mothers who would dispute the allegation that insemination is "oppressive".
I think it will matter little for me to explain to you where my concerns or emphasis is in my statements (I would have bolded that bit about demanding control) as you feel your argument is best suited when you portray or present my argument as extreme. Even though women desiring and yes needing control over their reproduction beyond insemination has been occurring for thousands of years in every culture in every part of the world, regardless of risk, or local restrictions. Somehow acknowledging this reality and attempting to address it and deal with it is extreme. I don’t think so, I feel the denial of such realities is the extreme position. Also this is a debate about abortion with sex, insemination and pregnancy in that context. Most women who become pregnant and have their babies obvious do so willingly and joyously. But we are not discussing most women, we are discussing the women who seek, desire and need an abortion and I doubt that for them it is a joyous reality or decision.
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Whoa...you went from an unqualified "oppressive" to "rape".
It was not unqualified; I stated it was presented in the context of a lack of or the removal of individual control or what we like to call choice.
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Actually, I'm extremely offended that you're placing words in my mouth, and I absolutely defy you to quote me where I have said or strongly lead anyone to believe that I believe "that in this world women are no longer systematically abused, mistreated, discriminated against and are in fact still living in the "pre-sexual revolution era"". I've said nothing of the sort, and I haven't even addressed the issue because nobody had brought it up. The fact that you would resort to this sort of tactic certainly doesn't speak well for your confidence in your position, and I'm going to make a very big deal out of this because I absolutely do not like to be misquoted, let alone have entire fabrications put into my mouth. My words are an open record, and you are welcome to scour everything I've said on this message board to support your claim, but you will absolutely not find that quote or anything like it written by me. I say again, I defy you to actually quote me, rather than propping up a straw man and putting my name on it. I stake out my position very carefully and clearly, and I will not have you pushing me into a corner that I choose not to stand so that your argument becomes more convenient. I would hope that other people recognize the difference between what I say and what you wrongfully attribute to me, but I want to be absolutely clear that there is a gross discrepancy here so that there is no mistake in the minds of other readers.
I clearly stated
It seems you believe It is obvious that I am not quoting you but assessing your argument. I think you should expect that when you put your opinions and beliefs out in public like you do here that people will interpret them.
Regardless of your extended explnation again and again I find your comments lacking tremendously in concern for and recognition of the realities women face. You do not address rape or sexual abuse and when asked of it shrug it off with a statistic. What about fetal impairment, a woman’s health risks, the lack of socioeconomic equality, a lack of family support, physical and emotional abuse, mental illness, substance abuse, age, incest, lack of sexual education, birth control ineffectiveness, IVF techniques and finally self determination?
The lack of complexity you lend women and their situations and possible personal dilemnas is not only condescending but shallow. You seem far more focused on how the subject effects you personally then what it means and it's relationship to basic rights for women in our society as a whole. And yes the very real and all important balance between women's reproductive rights and children's rights.
Also your kitten example is ridiculous. How many cats are involuntarily neutered? How many animals are systematically euthanized? And since when was abortion illegal for animals? Why you would wish to use our practices and laws regulating animal’s reproductive rights to claim they are greater than our own is a really confusing and dishonest argument to me.