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I have the pleasure of writing this from a state (Illinois) that never banned interracial marriage/miscegenation, but does have a law on the books defining marriage as one man, one woman. We were also the first state in the union to decriminalize homosexual acts in private. Consider us enlightened.
As for those 39 states, I’d say that they were wrong, and would agree with the Loving decision. A brown man and a white woman certainly fit the “one man one woman” definition of marriage, unlike what you are suggesting.
My point was only to respond to your implication that 45 or so States can't possibly be engaging in a mindless whim. As I've pointed out to you before - and you have admitted here - it is quite possible for 75% of the population and 45 or so State legislatures to be wrong. That was my only point in that regard.
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At least I’m not the only idiot who looked in the dictionary to see what marriage meant. Some
Kentucky judge did the same way back in 1973. After the judge listed the various dictionary definitions of marriage, they found that
“the relationship proposed does not authorize the issuance of a marriage license because what they propose is not a marriage.” It’s interesting that the lawmakers didn’t feel compelled to define the word, and thus had to fall back on the common definition.
It's fascinating to me that you use this case to challenge my assertion that in cases where there is a legal definition that the legal definition is what is used. I always smile when people bring up
Hallahan when it comes to the use of the dictionary rather than a legal definition. In this case, it is precisely the absence of a legal definition in Kentucky that
allowed the court to use the common definition. So, what's your point? I have always stated that where there is a legal definition, that is the definition that is used... not the common definition.
And my bringing up the legal definition was always to challenge the patently false assertion that civil marriage – a legal contract – has
always been defined as being between a man and a woman in this country. That clearly is not the case.
The laws that you mention do not define marriage. And can't really be used to prevent same-sex couples from marrying. Those laws make reference to people and ask people to say something particular. If same-sex marriage were allowed, a same-sex couple would be required to say those words... this does not prevent them from getting married... it only does so if they do not say those words.
And if it is unconstitutional to define civil marriage in terms of the gender of the people participating in it, the laws making reference to gender do not lend constitutionality to the definition – they would also be unconstitutional.
Marriage is a fundamental right... restrictions on that right have to be necessary regardless of how many laws exist that simply refer to the restriction.
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Here[/url] is an index of marriages in Illinois from 1763 – 1900. More than a million marriages, and not one same-sex couple to be found.
Really? Fascinating. And where did I ever state that same-sex couples were allowed to marry during that time period? So, again, what's your point? The simple fact that they have never been allowed to do so before is not justification enough to prevent it now. Marriage has always been a flexible institution. It used to be legal to rape your wife... that was part of the tradition of marriage... In most states, we used to prevent blacks from marrying whites... that was part of the institution of marriage. If the argument that it has never happened before were enough to justify preventing it now, we would have not had any of the positive changes to marriage that we have. So, you can show me all the historical records regarding marriage that you want... all it illustrates is that same-sex marriage was not allowed in this country – something I have never contested.
The more important issue is why. Why wasn't it allowed? That is the point of this debate.
The simple statement, "because marriage is for those of the opposite sex" does not justify the exclusion... it is merely a restatement of the fact that same-sex couples have never been allowed to legally marry. Why was the choice of whom you marry – which is a fundamental right – necessarily restricted to a man and a woman? The State says it has to do with procreation – it was restricted to a man and a woman because procreation is a fundamental aspect of marriage.
Marriage that does not involve procreation is not a fundamental right. – this is what
Blackstone stated earlier in this debate.
But, even
Blackstone has just admitted that this isn't the case. If it is a fundamental right for a sterile heterosexual couple to marry, then procreation is not a fundamental aspect of marriage – such a marriage will never involve procreation. As
Blackstone admits, marriage is about the results of procreation whether that procreation occurred in marriage or not – indeed, whether it is the couple seeking to get married that has done the procreating or not. Children, for the most part, are products of procreation. If marriage is about providing a framework in which to responsibly deal with the results of procreation, then those who adopt – in taking on themselves
all the parental responsibilities normally assigned to the biological parents – also have the fundamental right to marry. They are, in essence, taking on the responsibility for the results of procreation. The State sees no difference, legally, between adoptive parents and biological parents... it expects the same of both when it comes to being responsible for a child.
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Question for you. What is the states' interest in preventing me from marrying my brother exactly? It cvan't (sic) be about incest laws, because those laws only exist to prevent consanguineous procreation, so they would not present a valid state interest for 2 brothers marrying.
Really, is that the
only reason incest is illegal? I don't think that's true. As far as I know, incest laws also apply to brothers. You can argue that they shouldn't apply to brothers, but that really has no direct relation to this particular debate – this debate isn't about whether incest is constitutional or unconstitutional. Until they don't apply to brothers, brothers can't marry.
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I think you actually have the California law wrong. I’m not positive, but didn’t California, in 1971, write the marriage law to be gender-neutral in response to feminists? Then, with Anita Bryant and everything, they clarified it to eliminate the evil homosexuals? If so, that would have made same-sex marriage illegal even in California before 1971. Can you please clarify this, or maybe post the entire law from 1850? I’m especially curious how they referred to the spouses – I’m guessing husband / wife.
I do not have the California law wrong. What I posted is the entire definition of marriage as it existed in California from 1850. I posted this information earlier in the thread. I have also posted it in several other threads regarding this issue. If you have some evidence to the contrary, please supply it. California statutes are easily accessible from the web.
lederuvdapac,
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In nowhere has it ever been written that adoption in and of itself is a fundamental right comparable to free speech or trial by jury.
Please re-read the post you just responded to.

You are arguing a point that has already been resolved. I concede that adoption is not a fundamental right. It is a right, however, and the State – once an adoption is finalized – legally treats the adoptive parents as if they were the biological parents. So, the State expects adoptive parents to be
equally as responsible for the child as the parents who begot it. Therefore civil marriage – being this framework in which to responsibly deal with the results of procreation – is a fundamental right for adoptive parents just as much as it is for the parents who begot it. The adoptive parents took on
all of the parental responsibilities of the biological parents... they are now responsible for the results of the biological parents act of procreation – the
procreatee, as
Blackstone puts it.