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Again, I think you're being way oversimplistic about this. Sure people make choices, but they often make bad choices for whatever reasons. Just like you wouldn't hand a load revolver to a suicidal person you shouldn't encourage someone who's overcome by gambling to go to a casino.
You can't equate a person who is suicidal to full functioning person who chooses to gamble. The analogy lacks any logic. I would not hand a suicidal person a loaded gun, but that doesn't mean that i fail to recognize his right to take his own life. I just choose not to have any part in it as it is not my business. And I wouldn't encourage a person who likes to gamble to go to a casino, hell i would do everything I could to talk some sense into him. But if he still wants to go to the casino, who am i or you to stop him?
QUOTE(RedCedar)
You seem to think people are robots. Maybe you're really young have never experienced such situations and so you assume everyone has a grasp of their actions. I'm not sure. Life is a lot more complicated than your credo or idealogical bent.
What does one's age have to do with anything? If you cannot debate the logic of your arguments, then just bow out. Don't try to invoke age as a sign of logical superiority. Furthermore, this statement cannot be more backwards. I am making the argument that we are creatures of free will who are able to make choices. You are arguing that people are led by an uncontrollable disease to gamble, drink, or take drugs. Which sounds more like a robot? I have never heard of robots having free will to make rational decisions.
Life is complicated, and it becomes more complicated when this unsubstantiated medical jargon becomes mainstream dogma. My ideology dictates that people have a right to make decisions that pertain to their own bodies and that those same people are responsible for their choices. Your ideology dictates that some people are not responsible for their choices and that people sometimes do not know whats best for them and thus need someone to tell them what to do. I much prefer to have the former ideological bent.
QUOTE(RedCedar)
I know when my father was dying in the hospital I started drinking. I've never had a problem with alcohol before that point but because of the situation it seemed to help. Obviously that's a bad move. But I'm not a robot, I'm subject to my bodies emotions and feelings. Sometimes we make bad decisions because we have no one to help us or we have no alternatives.
People make bad decisions and they are responsible for those choices. In your situation, there were obvious environmental and social factors that led to your drinking. But did you have a disease? Hardly, despite what your local AA chapter will tell you. I am the one making the argument that people are subject to their emotions and feelings and THAT is what contributes to partaking in vices such as gambling and drinking. YOU are arguing that emotions and feelings are meaningless since once a person is addicted to a substance or activity that they cannot stop themselves despite their best wishes. So really your all over the map here and I don't really know what your true belief is because its all jumbled.
QUOTE(RedCedar)
I think you're being way over-simplistic on this. I think you have this idea of "free choice" that you learned somewhere and want to push that for every situation. Again, people are NOT robots. To assume that we always are level-headed and in control is just wrong. To assume that people can always behave responsibly is wrong. Your THEORY makes great sense in some text book or talking point on Rush Limbaugh....but even look at HIM. The guy rips drug users as criminals....then suddenly the tables are turned on him.
I have never and will never make the assumption that people are always level-headed or that choices are ever easy or fair. I have made the argument that despite social and environmental factors, that we all choose what it is we do. To use as an example in the
Addiction debate (which i implore you to return to if you want to debate addiction)
droop224 created the situation where you are being hijacked. Obviously if one values their life, they will vacate the car give it over to the hijacker. You have no choice. But you do in fact have a choice albeit a very easy one to make. If you value your life, you will leave but you can choose not to leave the car. Maybe you will try to fight off the attacker or drive away before he can harm you. Choices are never easy but that doesn't take away from that fact that they are still choices.
People don't always act responsibly but they are responsible for how they act. People are not robots and they have a choice.
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I'm not saying they aren't doing anything unwillingly. Again my analogy, I'd never give a loaded gun to a suicidal person. Would you? After all, they can decide for themselves, right?
You seem to think "the heck with people if they can't cope". You're position is very sterile and non-humanistic.
Perhaps in a twisted view of my logic you can come to that conclusion. Again, i would not hand a suicidal person a loaded gun but that in no way means that i reject his right to take his own life. If the same suicidal person had a loaded gun from personal possession and claimed he wanted to die, i would do everything in my power to sense him out of it...but in the end it is his choice whether or not to go through with it. I want to believe that I have control over my own life...but how can i have said control if i can't take my life willingly?
I in no way say the heck with people who can't cope. Like i say above, i would offer as much assistance as i possible could to change the mind of a person in pain. But i would also remind that they are responsible for their actions and that they are human beings who control their own destiny. Accept that the choices you have made, both the good and the bad, are yours and that you shoulder the responsibility for them. You seem to think that telling people that they are NOT responsible for their actions and that they have no power over their life choices that they are better able to cope with life's situations. But it doesn't, it distorts reality.
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You are way too into this idealogically. If someone close to you had such addictions and the casino kept lending them credit to bury the person, tell me you'd feel the same way about the casino.
How can i not be into this ideological when you make the outrageous claim that people do not know whats best for them and thus need someone other than them to tell them how to live. If you find this statement contradictory to totalitarian principle, then i would sure like to know how you derived to that conclusion.
If a person kept going to the casino and gambling away all their money...i would be mad at the person, not the casino. What has the casino done? Existed? They don't force people to gamble, people choose to go.