QUOTE(Paladin Elspeth @ Nov 30 2006, 01:54 PM)

1. Is Bill Cosby right and just being brutally honest in a politically correct society that dislikes inconvenient truth?
I agree with Bill Cosby, and I think about what he says whenever I see a man walking down the street holding his drooping pants in the front around the crotch area to keep them from falling down around his ankles. The hip hop, "playa" stereotype is destructive to groups that embrace it, whites included, even though some in the entertainment and clothing industry are profiting a great deal from it.
How does it foster acceptance or respect to call each other "nigga" (however you spell the epithet), especially when the excuse of using the term to weaken it is shown to be a lie whenever someone of another race uses it publicly? If its use in the African American community has reduced it to an innocuous term of familiarity, why wasn't Michael Richards merely derided off the stage and then ignored as irrelevant?
In addition, use of the term "bitch" to refer to one's girlfriend is certainly not a sign of respect or affection. It is a term of contempt and subjugation as well.
2. Is Cosby only saying things now about taking personal responsibility and ending "the victim mentality" of Blacks that conservatives have been saying for years?
Bill Cosby isn't really saying something new. But you would pretty much have had to be in church listening to a sermon to hear it otherwise, or read a conservative publication. Bill Cosby brought it out into the open for the mainstream news media to pick up and publicize.
I don't know this Dyson guy; the only thing I have been exposed to with the name Dyson is a new type of vacuum cleaner. Based on what was quoted in this thread, I believe Dyson takes somewhat of a patronizing view of Bill Cosby when he mentions the tragic death of Cosby's son. It isn't helpful.
While Dyson might be right about more affluent African Americans not wanting to be associated with poorer African Americans with their entertainment and lifestyle preferences, it is hardly a unique phenomenon. Witness the curling of the lip when some white Americans refer to other white Americans as "trailer trash." Classism is rampant, but it should not be affixed to Bill Cosby's criticism of what amounts to a destructive culture.
3. Is the fierce debate between Dyson and Cosby a sign that Blacks have a choice to make between mainstream values and hip-hop culture?
We all make choices every day, and these choices either help us or hinder us in our efforts to get along in society and make a livable wage. A lot of the white kids who sport the anarchy symbol are going to have to put it away in order to be hired by a business person who, after all, wants that business to succeed and does not wish to tolerate idiosyncracies in an employee that might discourage new clients, sales or productivity.
So yes, there is a choice to be made. To take on a persona that is at odds with mainstream society and then scream prejudice when one does not succeed is to ignore one's own responsibility in the situation.
We are in full agreement Paladin Elspeth on nearly every point. I guess you have joined the class of "racists" along with me.
The reason that some gravitate toward Dyson and bad mouth Cosby is because hucksters like Dyson
keep the hate alive. What Dyson does is no different than what David Duke and the "white power" clowns do when they play to disaffected low-class "white"
losers by preaching to them that their low standing, their lack of success, and their pain is NOT the result of their poor choices, bad decisions, and insistence on living in a dysfunctional way,
but due to OTHERS who hold them down... mainly the "Jews", the "Zionists", "ZOG", and the blacks who are there to exploit their women and
take their jobs.
Hate is a seductive message to those who haven't succeeded. It removes any sense of responsibility, accountability, and ownership of one's own success. That's why so many Palestinians gravitate toward it, why low-class-white-losers do, and why members of the "black underclass" and the hucksters who exploit that seductive power buy into its message.
The history of the United States is what it is. There is no undoing the legacy of slavery or blatant racism that was practiced up until 40 years ago or so.
But when one looks at the demographics of this country, most people weren't even alive during that period. Should THEY be held responsible for the racism they never practiced? What about slavery? There are NO former slave owners still alive. Yet, we are told by some,
who want to keep the hate alive, that current Americans who happen to look like former slave owners, should be accountable for those past actions.
That's absurd. Should modern Germans be held accountable for the Nazis? Of course not.
Bill Cosby hits the nail on the head. Instead of harping about "racism", which is a relatively minor factor facing "blacks" today, he advocates cutting through the baloney and focusing on basics and fundamentals. One can't hope to succeed when one makes babies at a young age without a father committed to long-term support of that child. One cannot hope to succeed in this world if one cannot read/write and perform mathematics. One cannot aspire to succeed if one lacks the basic skills required to socially integrate oneself into the larger culture. One has no chance if one abandons the rule of law, embraces a criminal mentality, abuses drugs and refuses to live by society's rules..... by claiming, as the huckster and hate enabler Dyson does, that one has the RIGHT to a separate culture outside of any social accountability because of past historical facts and because
one looks a certain way.
The whole race issue has become a crutch for some. And a vehicle for an arrogant form of patronizing racism that is as insidious as any other.
There is NO reason why black Americans shouldn't be able to perform to the same standards as everyone else. It's time to start focusing on the REAL reason they aren't as a group... and stop the counterproductive snake-oil-salesmen who
keep the hate alive.... in order to improve THEIR own standing, wealth, and "power" in the "community". The growing ranks of the "black upwardly mobile professional class", black republicans, and black conservatives show that it can be done and these role models demonstrate a template for success. Yet, to the hucksters like Dyson, who want to
keep the hate alive, these success stories are sell outs, race traitors, and Uncle Toms. One sees the same mentality in the middle east where "progressive" Arabs who wish to reach peace with Israel and the non-muslim world in general are marked for death or social expulsion.
When you get right down to it, Cosby preaches a way forward and Dyson a way back.
Which course seems most logical?