Should Senator Boxer offer a formal and public apology to Secretary of State Rice?I'm no fan of Senator Boxer's style, and it is obvious how her wording might be construed to be insensitive; but within the full context, I don't read in this quote any assertion, intentional or otherwise, that a woman is only as valuable as the number of children she has or the man she's married to. Senator Boxer, on the contrary, has a long record of taking actions many would deem consistent with trying to eradicate such a mindset, so it would seem she has merely pulled a John "Inartfully Worded" Kerry. But that doesn't get her entirely off the hook for her statements.
Senator Boxer's real mistake here, like Representative Rangel's, is only that she does not believe any leader without family in harm's way can possibly empathize enough with the human cost of warfare to make sound judgements about our nation's defense. In almost any other situation, she would call such an emotional investment in a decision a "conflict of interest". Should the entire jury in a capital murder trial be composed only of family members of the accused or others on death row? Of course not. If Sen. Boxer goes so far as to apologize for anything, it should be to her constituents who elected her to make sound judgements, not for unintentionally insulting Secretary Rice.
If there were any sign that Secretary Rice took the statement personally, it would be polite, but definitely not required, for Senator Boxer to offer a heartfelt, sympathetic voice of opposition to the specific implications that had offended Secretary Rice, along with reassurances they were not intended; first in private, then in public. Statecraft is part stagecraft. Whether or not she chooses to respond sympathetically depends on what public persona Senator Boxer wants to project-- the tough prosecutor or the senior statesperson. An apology is not owed, but one might be offered anyway.
Should she remove herself or be removed from the hearings?If she were Senator Lott or any other Republican, the DNC would demand her resignation and stage demonstrations in the streets. The paleomedia would be foaming at the mouth demanding an apology, then complain the apology was inadequate and insincere. So they would demand she apologize again, preferably with tears this time, for any voters in the viewing audience who might have missed the first one. But alas, she is a champion of the paleomedia's favorite ideologies, so she gets a free ride, the benefit of the doubt, and almost none of the negative attention usually heaped on Republicrats. Collusion at its best.
However, just because Senator Boxer has treated others (particularly Senator Lott) unfairly doesn't necessarily mean she should be treated unfairly, too. She should neither remove herself from the hearings nor allow herself to be removed from the hearings without a fight. She merely tried to say something in a way that could easily be misinterpreted as politically incorrect-- much like Senator Lott, whose flubbed attempt to complement an elderly Senator made him look almost as racist as
Senator "Grand Dragon" Byrd (D) (now third in line to the Presidency) once was. The Republicrats who claimed Lott should not have been railroaded have no business trying to paint Sen. Boxer as a male chauvinist pig; if not for common honesty and decency, then for the simple reality that such charges wouldn't stick even if they were true.
Should she offer a formal and public apology to the citizens of the State of California and the Governor?On the basis of offending Secretary Rice and the female gender, she owes no apology to anyone; however, she would be wise not to get defensive, but to humbly clarify her statement and distance herself from the way her words were misconstrued, probably in a low-key press release unless the paleomedia really starts beating the war drums (not likely), in which case an "impromptu" (memorized) "heartfelt" statement to a "hapenstance" (orchestrated) gaggle of rolling cameras would likely suffice. A full press conference would do her far more harm than good. Of course, she and her damage control handlers already know all that. Business as usual.
Chastising Senator Boxer for what she obviously did
not mean should be beneath all American politicians, but it never has been. The Republicrats played Kerry's "inartfully worded" joke for all it was worth a few months ago, no differently than the Democrans hounded Senator Allen as if he were the first politician in history to liken his opponent's operatives to monkeys (albeit a show of poor judgement and profound insensitivity to race issues, at best). Boxer's adversaries would be far wiser to give her the benefit of the doubt on political incorrectness, while opposing the
real substance of what Sen. Boxer's was obviously trying to say: that the only people qualified to make rational decisions about the nation's defense are those most emotionally predisposed to put personal interest ahead of national interest. While the sentiment is superficially satisfying, its implications are foolish, almost to the point of being backwards.
To be clear, I believe most family members of our troops would be perfectly capable of making the right decisions if the fate of the nation were placed exclusively in their hands; but few could honestly deny the difficulty of resisting the overwhelming emotional urge to place the safety of their loved ones above the fate of the rest of the nation, especially if all the decision-makers were under similar pressure. It is the very fact that many are subject to the constant tug of such temptations that earns each of them far more respect than most of us could ever muster-- especially when they can find the strength to put on whatever public face is necessary to boost morale, although our gratitude should not be diminished if and when such a burden becomes too heavy to bear.
Pardon me if I have strayed off topic yet again. Suffice it to say the issue hits close to home.