QUOTE(carlitoswhey @ Sep 12 2007, 11:59 AM)

QUOTE(Paladin Elspeth @ Sep 11 2007, 12:40 PM)

Let's be clear on a couple of things:
1. "My" grandmothers are long dead. My last grandmother died a Canadian citizen in Canada, where they do seem to give more than a rat's derriere about the well-being of people not directly related to them, but that is the subject of another thread, I'm sure.
That they care about people not related to them is commendable. Are you saying that those advocating private charity do not?
QUOTE(PE)
2. You break any law and you are, figuratively or literally speaking, subject to "gunpoint"; however, the few times I have exceeded the speed limit, no one pulled a gun on me.
Hmm. What exactly made you pull over then? Why not just keep going and ignore the flashing lights?
QUOTE(PE)
You know, living in a country necessarily means being subject to the laws of that country. I would suggest that rather than whining about someone getting something you think they do not deserve for some reason, talk to your legislators, or work legitimately to replace them.
How exactly are those against forcible income redistribution "whining" about those who don't
deserve something?
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In the meantime, I still have enough skin on my nose that I'm not fussing and fuming about someone else's grandma or child or spouse getting aid if they need it from the government. What's your problem?
I know you weren't addressing me directly, but
my problem is quite clear. I see the endgame of the government "help" and I think it will hurt more than it helps. See bankrupt social security / welfare state, France, Germany, etc. I see that government control of institutions begets inefficiency. Etc.
We are 30-50 years behind Europe's socialism. By the time the compassionate among us have forced us into semi-socialism, those models will have completely failed. The cherry-picking on the left is surreal - I had a conversation with a friend about how "those army guys in Sicko" got great medical care. Well, yeah, the prison-dictatorship of Cuba put them in the best hospital to embarrass America. When you don't trade money, you trade favors and influence. Kim Jung-Il isn't starving, you know.
QUOTE(PE)
It never ceases to amaze me just how calloused people in this country can be when it comes to helping others in need. So self-absorbed, and so afraid that someone else might end up with a little more than they have even though they might not be seen as "worthy enough." Such selfishness can be summed up in the trite little axiom, "He who dies with the most toys wins."
I second CP's response to this. It is offensive and insulting to call private charity advocates
callous. 
I didn't pull over because of a fear of having a gun pulled on me or being arrested. I was breaking the law; the law enforcement officer caught me. Pulling over and paying the consequences was the RIGHT THING TO DO.
There will always be "forcible income distribution." Perhaps it isn't whining on the part of some people when they complain about the way the income is redirected, but it always seems to be the response of some people, even as long ago as the 70's to gripe and moan about food stamps and "welfare queens" when it was apparent that there are also people who are deserving of help and who do not manipulate the system. What I see is more corporations benefitting from government help as well, case in point a company in Muskegon that decided in spite of its profits that it "couldn't afford" to pay its share of cleaning up the water it polluted, so the city government buckled and passed on the cost to the residents. Of course it was corporate blackmail, because implicit in the company's complaint was the threat that it would just move elsewhere if the city didn't comply.
As far as the selfishness that I hear in a lot of the complaints, what else would one think when the conversation inevitably culminates to "I don't know why I should spend My hard-earned money on a bunch of..." But that isn't whining or selfishness, is it? It just sounds like it to those of us who don't feel that way. And just how do we magically know who actually deserves something and who doesn't? It isn't always apparent.
Maybe it's a "glass half-full/glass half-empty" thing. I am just thankful to have the money to live and to be able to pay taxes. No, I'm not thankful about it all the time, but I'm not complaining most of the time, either, when someone else benefits from what some people consider government largesse and I perceive as someone being able to live their lives without threat of starvation or going without life-saving medications, and while able to have their children attend a public school with some, if not the highest, educational standards.
If you and
CP find what I have said offensive about calloused, self-absorbed people who begrudge other people a means of making it when other means are not available or highly unlikely to be attained, and if you and
CP are among those who contribute privately to charities and other community works that help the disadvantaged, or, better yet, roll up your own sleeves and help; you need to realize that my comments are not directed at you. However, I will not apologize to anyone who does not see any need or obligation to help his or her fellow human being if he or she has a chance to do so. There are selfish, greedy people in this country who don't help, don't contribute, ever. Yes, giving willingly is the highest expression of good. But in a society where an individual's good will and generous giving cannot be depended on to feed or clothe or house another person in desperate need, there is assistance available through the government. Knowing that many would do without basic needs for living without these government programs because there just aren't enough private funds available, would you begrudge those in need?
Recently in our county and in the Grand Rapids area, areas hit by unemployment while the rest of the country is doing better, the food trucks haven't had enough food to distribute to the needy.
How do you feel about cold calls where the person on the other end is continually soliciting for contributions to the Fraternal Order of Police Fund, the Red Cross, the Cancer Society, the Paralyzed Veterans of America, the VFW, and any of a hundred other charities? I know how I feel when I say I can't help them. Some of these services are duplications; many are not. How about the family whose house burned down because of faulty wiring that they didn't even know about? Or the victims of tornados? Shouldn't there be something in place to help them? When the insurance companies decide to renege on promises, what then? Will taking up a collection around the neighborhood get the family on their feet?
What is government for, anyway? Just fighting wars, making laws, and perpetuating itself? Isn't it to serve the people?
No, private charity advocates are not "callous." People who do not contribute at all when they can and discourage others from contributing are the calloused ones.