QUOTE(DaytonRocker @ Dec 2 2007, 03:30 PM)

Her burden of proof should be higher because she is offering sex. The only reason these people are together is all are consenting adults willing to have sex - including the prostitute. The problem is, when did that offer stop (assuming it did). In my opinion, the prostitute's word is not good enough.
If I'm alone with a prostitute (again, assuming she is working - not at home baking cookies and working on her garden), no other reason exists to be together. There is nothing stopping her from claiming consent did not exist any point before, during, or after the physical act. Yet, we want to claim she was raped based off whatever she says. Given there is no defense to this type of behavior, how can we charge someone with rape? Why doesn't the man have an equal chance in the legal fight? Why does he get branded as a rapist when nobody but the two could ever know the truth? And when is she working and not working? How can she prove she was or wasn't working?
There are simply too much subjective criteria to charge someone with rape. Without incontrovertible evidence, it's the price of engaging in risky behavior.
QUOTE(droop224 @ Dec 2 2007, 08:48 PM)

Are you guys serious. By what right do you call these men rapists.By what right have you determined this to be rape. There has been no contest, but I have yet to hear an admission to the females story from any of the men.
I haven't heard from Dominique Gindraw the accussed. Has anyone asked him did this happen the way she says?? What I hear from the Judge is the same clips that have been presented here repeatedly.
If this is the whole story without contestation. That she went to to a house and had to have sex at gunpoint, meaning everyone agreees with this story, then yes she was robbed and raped.
The only people saying that... are the people who are saying that people are saying that. That would by YOU, Kimpossible, Lesly and a host of others. Entspeak has said a prostitute can be raped. Dayton Rocker has said no one deserves to be raped, I have been saying no one deserves to be raped.
This is like some kind psych game you all are playing on yourself. She not a victim( legally) until they are guilty(legally) Yet all I keep hearing is how some rapists got off, i'm sorry but did some one get convicted here??
No one has even reported the side of the other men. I even did a google search for the lead accussed Dominique Gindraw.
I haven't seen anything to show she was a victim of rape. I read excerpts of her testimony. Right now story after story after story the headlines are reading...
Rape viictim this... Rape victim that....
Tell me from any of the three of you, or anyone else. Does someone become a rape victim the minute they say they were raped?? Does rape even have to happen to be a rape victim. because by the way many of you are talking, I'm not sure rape has to happen for someone to be a rape victim.
Well, here's something about Mr. Gindraw, the accused, that you seem to have missed in Jill Porter's original article,
droop224:
The defendant was charged in an identical incident involving a 23-year-old woman four days later, DeSipio said.
Neither woman knew the other and both told identical stories. The other men involved in the attack couldn't be identified.
DeSipio was so stunned by Deni's ruling in the first case that he refused to present the second one.
"I wouldn't demean her that way," he said of the second victim, calling the proceedings "a farce."
Judge Deni then threw out the second case for failure to prosecute.
Police Detective Jack Ryan, who investigated the incidents, said the victims in the two cases "were in fear for their lives. Since they saw one of the doers really well, it crossed both of their minds that they'd be killed."http://www.philly.com/dailynews/local/2007...ce_system_.htmlYou can cry me a river about how Gindraw's sparkling reputation has been besmirched, but instead of an innocent man falsely accused, he seems to be a dumb punk who enjoys brutalizing women. He and Judge Deni should go out on a date. I'm sure he'd express his gratitude to her in a very personal and intimate way.
But what about the woman in question here? What's her hard luck story? Porter wrote another story and interviewed her:
She's a 19-year-old woman who struggles to support herself and her infant daughter - while she cares for her sick mother.
"I'm a single parent by myself and I go through so much - it's so hard," she told me this week.
Her disabled mother spends months at a time in the hospital - which prompted her daughter to drop out of school when she was in 10th grade.
She'd been working as a home health aide earlier this year when a friend who advertised as an escort on Craigslist urged her to follow suit to make money.
She'd been doing it a few months when, on Sept. 20, she arranged to have protected sex with a man and his friend for $250. But when she showed up, the man pulled a gun and forced her to have unprotected sex with him and three other men.
"I was crying, I was begging for my life, telling them I had a little girl at home," said the victim, whose name I'm witholding for her privacy and safety. http://www.philly.com/philly/hp/news_update/11074601.htmlWho is the victim here? Certainly not Dominque Gindraw.
No, you aren't saying a prostitute can't be raped.
DaytonRocker isn't saying a prostitute can't be raped.
Entspeak isn't saying a prostitute can't be raped. If you were to say that a prostitute can't be raped or deserves to be raped, you would be rebuked as horrible, misogynists and sexists and deservedly so.
Being called out as a "misogynist" or "sexist" carries a negative label. But not as negative as being called a whore or a rapist though.
What you
are saying is because a woman is a prostitute she forfeits the benefit of the doubt and the same legal protection as any other woman does. She has to reach a higher threshold of evidence to convince you of her victimization since she has chosen to engage in sex with strangers in exchange for money. Since she has apparently chosen to debase herself by banging creeps in abandoned buildings, she's a dirty whore and whores so offend our sensibilities that unless they are ravished by a horde of serial killers they are undeserving our our understanding, sympathy or legal protection under the law. As she is already "damaged goods" in the eyes of some of the posters here, they seem to fairly incredulous there's even a controversy here.
It's at times like these I wish some of

members whom are professional sexworkers were still posting. Perhaps they could provide a perspective missing from and badly needed in debates like this one. The lack of understanding and the shallowness of some of the statements posted in this thread is breathtaking in how disconnected they are from reality.
I am not a woman and I am not a sexworker, but I know a few whom are both and most of them don't consider themselves whores. Some of them quit good jobs or bad jobs to go into business for themselves. As I've said in other prostitution discussions over the years, I wouldn't want my daughter to grow up to be a hooker, but I wouldn't want her to grow up to be a secretary who has to bang her boss to keep her job either.
One thing that is good about a topic like this is how it tends to bring out posts not just from the male majority of

, but the often marginalized female participants of this board as well. Not surprisingly, their responses tend to be a bit different from that of the men. Wonder why that is?
Certainly not because they are sexworkers themselves, know any women that are or have anything but a mild to severe disgust for sexwork. Maybe it's because regardless of their personal feelings they are still women and even if they don't know someone who has been raped (though I would guess more women know of someone who has been raped than most men), as women the threat of rape is always present. Rapists don't care how pretty or ugly or fat or thin or Black or White or young or old or busty or flat as a board.
All that matters to a rapist is she's a woman and that makes any woman a potential rape victim. I don't think men walk around with that same nagging fear in the back of their minds. One blogger who was raped has her own viewpoint and not surprisingly, it differs with that of the judge---and those who agree with her decision to let the rapist walk.
As for Judge Deni's insinuation that the accuser didn't "behave" like a rape victim because she "had another client before she went to report it," there's no such thing as a "typical" response to rape. Immediately following a rape, some women go into shock. Some are lucid. Some are angry. Some are ashamed. Some are practical. Some are irrational. Some want to report it. Some don't. Most have a combination of emotions, but there is no standard response, no single indicator to "prove" a rape has happened. (Or disprove it.) Responses to rape are as varied as its victims.
And if you're a 20-year-old single mother who's turning tricks to put food on the table, being gang-raped at gunpoint doesn't magically mean there's money in your pocket afterwards.
Though it's just as likely, if not more so, that the delay had more to do with shock than pragmatism.
I also suspect if the victim had been a male neurosurgeon who did another surgery and saved a life before he reported a sexual assault to the police, we would be hearing about Judge Deni praising his heroic stoicism.
Anyway, I'd like to assure Judge Deni, as one of the women who was "really raped" that she's so worried about demeaning, that I don't feel demeaned by the rape of a woman of any profession or personal circumstancebeing called what it is. I do, however, have a serious f***ing problem with the idea that someone who holds a gun to a woman's head, rapes her, and lets his friends rape her while he holds her hostage with a deadly weapon isn't a rapist.linkThere's been a lot of words written here about how this woman "chose" to be prostitute and along with the choice comes the inherent risks. Perhaps the risks of prostitution come with the financial benefit. However, all "choices" are not equal. If a woman says she chooses to be a prostitute, that word is deconstructed letter-by-letter and assumptions are made that are never made when a woman is in a violent relationship with a man who regularly beats her. We wonder aloud why a woman would not "choose" to leave a lout who thrashes her and leaves her bloodied and bruised. An abused woman is never judged as harshly because rationalizations and reasons are presented as to why she cannot leave. With a prostitute it has to be that she choses to have sex with strangers or she's on drugs and has to sell her body to get a fix or her pimp will hurt her if she doesn't work the streets or this or that.
It is presumed choices can exist in every situation, no matter how coercive, but not in prostitution.