QUOTE(doomed_planet @ Apr 7 2008, 10:24 PM)

QUOTE(logophage @ Apr 6 2008, 09:32 PM)

If I were in Germany and a sign asked me to speak German when ordering, I would be somewhat insulted. This is mostly because I would already know to try to speak in my host country's language (and I would wonder if the business owner even wanted me in his country). While I can't read motivations into why the business owner put the sign on his restaurant (which I'm sure had an eagle and a flag on it too), I do know how I would feel if I saw the sign there. Furthermore, after reading the sign, I can't imagine I would be grateful for the "help" it provided.
What is there to be insulted about? I seriously don't understand.
Let's walk through the possibilities:
1. I can't read German and I can't intuit what the sign means (or intuit the sign's meaning incorrectly). Thus, the sign is either completely meaningless to me or I read a different meaning into it.
1a. I can speak enough German to make my order
--> German shopkeeper is happy.
1b. I don't speak German.
--> German shopkeeper is unhappy because I don't speak German. He points to the sign. I don't understand the sign. I assume he can't understand me because I don't speak German. What do I do? Hmm... maybe, try to speak German? Ask the shopkeeper if he speaks my language? Ask someone else for help? Or, last resort, leave.
1c. I willfully don't order in German even though I can speak it.
--> How does the shopkeeper know this? Maybe, he's seen other Americans come into the shop who choose not to speak German and concludes the same about me. Not sure. Anyway, the German shopkeeper is unhappy... (like 1b).
2. I can't read German but I can intuit what the sign means. Perhaps, the sign has some sort of diagram or nationalist symbols I could use to infer the sign's meaning.
2a. I can speak enough German to make my order
--> German shopkeeper is happy.
2b. I don't speak German
--> German shopkeeper is unhappy because I don't speak German. He points to the sign. I infer from the sign that he wants me to speak German. But, I don't speak German. What do I do? Hmm... maybe, try to speak German? Ask someone for help? Or, last resort, leave.
2c. I willful don't order in German even though I can speak it.
--> How does the shopkeeper know this? Like (1c).
3. I can read German.
3a. I can speak enough German to make my order
--> German shopkeeper is happy
3b. I don't speak German
--> This is an extremely unlikely case. I'd be able to speak enough German to order if I can read it. Probably, I'd have some sort of medical condition like a stroke... Call the doctor.
3c. I willfully don't order in German even though I can speak it.
--> How does the shopkeeper know this? Perhaps, I've given it away somehow. Maybe I'm Borat? Anyway, it's like (2c).
Conclusion:
The outcome of any of these cases will be the same for the shopkeeper no matter my capabilities in the language. The only difference is whether or not I can understand the sign. If I can understand the sign, how does it help? I'll either feel like an idiot for not being able to speak the language OR I will be insulted for it telling me something I already know.
QUOTE(doomed_planet)
If indeed you are there, and you are wanting to speak the language, then you would assume that sign is not meant for YOU, but for others, perhaps.
Why would I assume this? Does the sign say: "Ignore me if you can read this!"
QUOTE(doomed_planet)
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I've never experienced being a woman, thus women don't exist? Do you know anyone who thinks like this? I sure don't.
I know people who assume problems don't exist because they, themselves, haven't seen them up close. That is the point I was trying to make with you.
I also know people who know people that assume problems don't exist because they haven't seen them up close and thus these people assume others also think like this. It seems to happen on debate threads (like this one).
QUOTE(doomed_planet)
What about a sign that says, "no shoes, no service." Or a sign that says, "Must pay in dollars." What if a guy only has shekels in his pocket?
I see what you're saying here. You're saying the the "Speak English!" sign is equivalent to the "No shoes, no service!" sign. Ohhh... That's the disconnect. They are different to me. I see the "Speak English!" sign as a statement of policy as well as a political statement. It's the political statement which is problematic. I have no trouble with the policy statement in and of itself though, as enumerated above, it's mostly useless at conveying its message to the intended audience.