1.)How do you plan on your children being educated?My children are 8, 6, and 2. I lived in an ethnically diverse community at the edge of a large and widely failing metropolitan school district. I wanted to start in this area, but it was deteriorating, in no small part because of the declining condition of the local school cluster. Just before kindergarten we decided that we had to move. We upgraded to a community that we could barely afford to live in so we could be in the best public school system in the state. Living in the South, even that is not a guarantee for a good situation. But I believe my children are in an excellent academic sistuation for the present and I face another major decision down the road. (If I can continue to afford my present home and stay in the district)
I am seriously considering placing my children in the private school that I work at when they reach middle school, probably at the sixth grade level. They biggest problem for me is cost. I will get a discount and hopefully significant financial aid, but three students in this school may make a big deal of difference in whether I will be able to offer much help for college or not. The weaker students my children are and the more prone they are to peer pressure the more likely I will be to place them i my school, regardless of the cost.
2.)What school option is the best? Please provide sources and statistics if possible.When a private school's mission is providing high quality education, it is the best system for the average student.
I work at a private high school that is what I believe one of the most ideal models for education. We are a secular school and are members of the NAIS/SAIS/TAIS professional organizations that serve as national regional and state organizations for setting standards of quality and a serve as a community for sharing strategies and successes.
The weaknesses of this system are cost, diversity (especially economic) and some limitation of programs.
Additionally, the draining of highly involved families from the public school system is often an effect of the independent school. This dwindles the pool of students in the public school system that emphasize academic performance. The way most public school systems deal with this is to provide an honors/AP track for the dedicated and gifted students of the system. In the good public school systems this track puts students with highly talented peers with experienced and hard working instructors. These students often can earn their way into the top colleges in the nation.
For the average student who will not necessarily work into the top tier, independent schools are a better solution. Middle academic tracks tend, even at the best systems in my state to serve as low challenge holding pens. The students do not need to apply themselves very thoroughly to easily cruise through high school and get a degree. Many of the students are not heading for college, but the curriculum is college prep.
3.)What school option is the "worst," at least, in your area of the nation? The worst option is a situation where my children might be exposed to violent crime, become associated with habitually criminal juvenile delinquents, and be in the danger of getting hurt or learning more about getting in trouble than in getting an education. While our local city is relativiely small, its non-magnet schools are horrific, have a very high dropout rate.
At their worst, the inner city schools provide very few strong classes, a dangerous social environment, and a mood of failing expectations, and a culture of dropping out of school.
Time permitting, I'll research some educational statistics to back this up. But as I said, I have three kids.