Good thread, CR!
would tend to second most of Leduruvdapac's comments, except for the following:
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Not irrational, anti-rational. This means that the true conservative questions the ability for reason to govern the affairs of men.
I see where Ledur is coming from here, and probably agree with the concept, but I wanted to point out that I would phrase this differently. I believe, and I think most conservatives (ie, small government-minded) people believe that it is irrational to expect government to be able to control the lives of individuals better than they can control it themselves. It is not anti-rational, but rather an application of rationality itself. The conservative mindset, IMHO, believes anti-rationality is actually present in the belief that government can manage our lives for us better than we can ourselves. I also dislike the term because I believe that conservatism is in fact applying rationality to government, as opposed to idealism. If you look at many of the issues that separate conservatism from liberalism, they center on liberals having a good idea (we should take care of our old people, for example) vs. conservatives feeling that while that is a worthy goal, it has issues in its application (we simply don't have the money for that). Rationalism vs. Idealism.
Is the term "socially conservative" a misnomer in the discussion of "being conservative"?In general, I would say yes. Conservatism would want to minimize the control government has on individuals, whereas social conservatism tends to want government to impose its will on them. These are somewhat (well, a lot, actually

)) mutually exclusive. Social conservatives and conservatives might have many similar mindsets and viewpoints, but I think they disagree on this very core issue, and it is one that goes completely against conservative philosophy.
Is being "socially conservative" the opposite of being "fiscally conservative? Not necessarily. Only in the sense that fiscal conservatism has its roots in minimizing government, whereas social conservatism would use government to achieve certain aims. There are many similarities in the philosophies, though, and they both stem from the same base.
Can you be pro-big goverment and conservative at the same time? Nope. The MOST fundamental belief in conservatism is minimization of governmental involvement in our lives, and hence in small government--especially federal government. Almost any 'big-government' movement then is anti-conservative. I suppose if there were a 'big' government movement towards reducing taxing and spending... (ya, like that will happen

) ).
This is where liberalism (idealism) tends to take swipes at conservativism, IMHO. "Oh, you don't want to do anything to help these people!". Again, as I expressed above, it's not that conservatives don't want to help, it's just that we tend to believe that the government is not the proper mechanism for doing so. This is why we sometimes don't seem to offer minorities, etc. much in the way of programs...we are against such programs from the get-go, regardless of who they help. Welfare reform is perhaps the best example of this in action. Conservatives believed that creating a large governmental program to help these people was not, in the long run, really going to help them. Welfare reform, then, rolled back many of these programs in the interest of the very people they were designed to assist...with the result being that most of these people ended up better off (and less tax dollars spent on the problem to boot).