QUOTE(UGA Boy @ Nov 17 2003, 02:30 AM)
So now my dad is angry (I am too), and he says something to the effect of Why do you think I can't be in First Class? Of course the lady was appalled, and she didn't deserve it obviously, but when you hear minorities get mad about racial profiling (or stereotypes in general) at least give it some though that they may have had some pretty bad experiences.
Exactly. It's not just some one-time incident people get upset about. My husband is STILL followed in stores (when we're in the states) and he's a grown man (26). He is ALWAYS well-dressed (won't leave the house unless he's looking good

), so it's not as if it's an issue of him looking like a "thug" or something (even still...). While he hasn't specifically been targeted by the police, a number of his friends (with very nice cars) have been on "suspicion" of illegal activity (Black folks can't have nice cars without being considered criminals, I guess?).
My step-father, on countless occasions, has been "harassed" (on all different levels of the word) by police simply because he's Mexican and fit some broad description (basically, "Mexican guy"). He was handcuffed in front of his then 4 year old and 1 year old for being in the wrong place at the wrong time (in an almost 100% Mexican neighborhood, where he grew up, and being pulled over for being "suspicious"). He was held, at gunpoint, because the police suspected him of stealing a truck - it was HIS TRUCK (well, his father's...but, I'll explain below) and he was trying to explain that he and my mother were the ones to call them. Story is that his father's truck had been stolen a month before, never found, and then my mother and step-father happened upon the truck when looking for a new home - it was parked in the driveway of the house right across the street from the one they were looking at! Anyway, my mother was screaming at the police that they were the ones who reported the thieves (about 7 or 8 very young Mexican guys took off in 2 other cars when they realized what was going on - and were speeding away as the cops arrived :roll:) and it took them 10 minutes to figure it out
It's not as if this sort of "profiling" (either by cops or by store-owners or whomever) is a rare occurence or that there are only a small number of people who've either been victim or who've known someone who's been victim.
My biggest beef with people who fail to consider that racial profiling could be a very real issue, is that it seems that they either don't WANT to believe it or that they can't seem to forget that they wouldn't have any real idea what it might be like for ethnic minorities in this country. I can speak with a little more "understanding" on account of my unique experiences as both the daughter of a Mexican man (for all intents and purposes I consider him my father - my bio father is not and has not been in the picture for almost 20 years) and as the wife of a Black man (and thus living through the experiences of not only my husband, but his entire family as well). It's frustrating to say the least that people could dismiss racial profiling and other ilk without really considering the fact that if it were happening, it's very likely that they personally would have no clue as it wouldn't be something that would affect them on any sort of noticeable level. A good friend of mine from high school was detained (granted it was brief after they realized their grave error) at an airport a few months after 9-11 for "being Middle Eastern and a potential threat to national security"

- well, gee, he's MEXICAN first of all, and second of all, the only reason he was questioned at all is because they thought he was Middle Eastern...no other reason what-so-ever.
My experiences and those of people close to me tell me that racial profiling is very real. To me, there is a HUGE difference between a person's race being one of a number of factors and race being the ONLY factor. When race is the only factor (maybe in combination with one other thing, like being Black and driving a very expensive car, for example) used to determine one's level of "suspiciousness", then I would consider that racial profiling.
edited to fix some grammar/spelling mistakes