QUOTE(Hobbes @ Sep 17 2003, 10:14 PM)
Although I tend to like and agree with Ms. Pigpen's reasoning that society should do what is in the best interests of the child, and has the least cost on society in general, I think it important to also note that the adoption route handles this particular problem rather neatly. The children are very well cared for, and the cost to society is nothing.
Adoption would be perfect. Unfortunately, there's a large percentage of woman who reconsider and want to keep their babies after the birth. This is a primary reason why waiting lists for newborns is long...not a dearth of new babies, but a large amount of women reconsidering. Even if we considered the possibility of forcing new mothers to hand over babies they could not care for initially, there's no way to ensure the mother who can afford a newborn will be able to afford a two year old later on.
Everyone wants the new baby, and not many want the 2+ year old. The 2+ year old with an indigent mother must still be cared for, for 16 more years minimum. Even if we assume that the mother should be willing to go it alone, completely, and turn the child over to the foster care system if she cannot properly afford to care for it, that would cost money. The situation pretty much comes down to: 1. she adopts it off in infancy 2. she can afford to care for it on her own or perhaps living with family 3. she cannot afford to pay for the child, so the state takes it away or helps her out. The first two are ideal but not always reality.