Trying to find a chat group for agnostic/athiests/humanists or just freethinkers in general for dateing, makeing friends. I am getting tired of dateing religious women, and or my friends *&$%$%^ with me on it. Would really like any input i can get. Thank you.

Jump onto IRC and get a chat room list of the server you're on. I'm sure you can find something you like.

--cheers

You might try Unitarian Universalism, a liberal religion that encompasses atheists, agnostics, humanists and freethinkers. They are a pretty open-minded group that welcomes intelligent discourse. You can find them on the web.

You could try the chatrooms at www.randi.org. I don't know what the social life is like, as (like here) it's American-based, so I don't get to go to any "dos", but the standard of debate is pretty high and it's mostly starting the kind on non-religious ethos you mentioned.

Plus most of Mr Randi's observations on his newsletter are pithy, and some are hilarious - usually at the expense of astrologers, homeopaths, water diviners, spiritualists and other "alternative" practitioners (i.e. fruit loops and conmen).