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4. If you love someone, you will do everything in your power to prevent unnecessary suffering.
5. People suffer unnecessarily. (eg. a child born with a congenital disease causing it three days of pain before it dies - serves no apparent purpose).
I disagree with #4. No, I do not do everything in my power to prevent my daughter's unnecessary suffering. If it is
not a life vs. death situation, or a life vs. long-term disability one, I let my daughter make the decisions. She can experience the consequences. I can argue with her to take that raincoat or umbrella or to have that supper she is turning her nose up at, but nothing is accomplished. But getting thoroughly soaked by the rain or experiencing hunger when everyone else is satisfied validates my stance more than making her do something. Making a young person go to a college when s/he is neither ready nor willing is an exercise in futility.
God is smart enough to know when a person is too stubborn to avoid problems. He did not make paper dolls to move around some great board, he made people with free will. Free will is good, but with it comes benefitting and suffering as a result of our choices.
And #5. I
don't disagree that people suffer unnecessarily. But I disagree with the perception that God is wanting people to suffer because of the consequences of their child's congenital defect. God set into motion cause and effect through the universe, if the child does not develop normally in utero, s/he will not magically be changed into a normal baby at birth.
A lot of times, suffering does cause us to develop patience, compassion, and a gigantic capacity to love and support even in horrible situations. But we have a choice in bad situations, to grow into wonderful people or to let our anger and bitterness twist us into grotesque, vengeful souls.
As far as the Holocaust goes, that was not the fault of the Jews at all. It was the fault of people who turned away from goodness and compassion and encouraged the expression of the dark side of free will.
Some day, many of us believe, there will be a judgment of all peoples. At that time it will be too late to ponder why we indulged the selfishness and forsook the higher thinking and selfless acts that were available to us. And whining that it is all God's fault will sound empty and meaningless, for we will know the truth.