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If there is such a thing as everlasting life, one flirts with losing it by convincing oneself that there is no such thing as sin and that all behavior is equally good.
First of all, you
cannot loose your salvation. If that
were the case, what Christ did on the cross was in vain. Security in Salvation is the only promise, with out that, you might as well still be sacrificing animals to God. God did away with that with the Lamb.
Romans 14.14 : I am absolutely convinced, as a
Christian, that nothing is impure in itself; only if a
man considers a particular thing impure, then to him
it is impure.
Paul said that.
As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete. "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father. You did not choose me but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name. I am giving you these commands so that you may love one another."
Luke 9:18-24
What is your definition of the word friend? A friend is someone we trust. A friend is someone who will stand with us through thick and thin. A friend is someone we care about and love. Most of all, we hope a friend cares about and loves us. Webster defines friend as a person attached to another by respect or affection.
Ruth and Naomi were women cast aside by their patriarchal culture and insignificant enough to be left for dead, yet their love allows them to make something for themselves out of nothing. The story may not seem to be very empowering of women. After all, the way out of their situation is to find Ruth a rich husband. It does, however, show the beautiful love between women.
The capacity to love is not somehow twisted by sexual orientation, rather, like any good Christian you simply need to make sure lust doesn’t get in the way of your walk with Christ. Most would argue that the ideal Christian relationship (even marriage) is all loving and not lustful at all, since lust is the character of a relationship that is selfish and seeks to take, while love is selfless and seeks to give and to serve. It’s not a question of whether the relationship falls into a category of emotional, intellectual, or sexual. The sexual part of a relationship can be very loving, if both partners want what is good for the other and are honest with each other. Even the most non-sexual emotional relationship can be very lustful, if people become codependent or possessive and seek to have their own needs met through the other person. We are called to glorify God through our love relationships, whether these are with lifetime partners, friends, roommates, co-workers, or random people we meet on the street.
The point of all this is that relationships don’t get easily classified into sexual or non-sexual, romantic or friendship. Sexual orientation can mean a lot or a little to the people of a love relationship. It's the context inwhich the relationship is held that is more important, not the gender.