QUOTE(Billy Jean @ Dec 12 2003, 07:44 PM)
Did this poor judge just not pay attention?
I'd say it's more like he was caught off guard.
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Should he be removed?
Not for this. IMHO this would be covered under full faith and credit.
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If
he didn't realize it was a same sex dispute and he's a judge, then is this a sign that gay marriage isn't really that big a deal?

You know how I feel about this. It's clear to me that whatever mystical 'difference' some claims exists in opposite sex unions doesn't show up in simple legal paperwork.
I must admit to being saddened at having a case like this used to advance our rights. It seems wrong on so many levels for something so personal to be a political issue at all. One reason I feel so strongly that same sex marriage needs to be recognized is the
permanence of marriage, it
should be harder to leave a marriage than a casual relationship.