I think in your sensitivity you're overlooking some things:
The women cast on friends aren't particularly bright either. Women, IMHO, aren't necessarily shown to be stupid, they're furniture, they're window dressing. I'd rather be portrayed as someone with character than a bikini model.
Although, with series like OC etc. men and women now are just sex images.
Also, have you noticed how women are portrayed as wives of the bumbling fathers? They're nasty hen-pecking annoying whiners. "Harry, did you clean the living room?" "Harry, you incompetent fool, can't you take care of the kids?"
Which prolly strikes a chord with men.
There was a commercial on the local radio that used to just drive me crazy. It had some nagging wife yelling at her idiot husband. I couldn't understand how they thought that was 1) funny or 2) commercially viable. I was offended for both sexes.
As stereotypes, there is some truth to them, at least in my home growing up. I think families are a LOT different now than they were in my parents age. I take care of myself, I can boil water...in fact I can cook very well....maybe that's why I'm not married.

And I think that relationship of "to the moon Alice" is getting very outdated. Instead they should show a single dad or single mom trying to cook for the kids.