[quote=perspective,Jan 14 2004, 02:34 PM] [QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]Secularist tend to not give up an inch even when it's obvious that inch has caused much greater problems than it solved.
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Some examples? Define what you mean by secularist and explain what you mean about giving up inches causing greater problems than 'it' solved - what is 'it'?
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Today's children have much less time with a parent than ever before. Instead of a parent being the major influence in their world as in the past, there is now a battle between daycares and television. After WWII there came an opportunity to rise in the class warfare by becoming a two income family and, as many wives had worked during wartime, it easily took hold and became the norm in a very short time. Wasn't long before it became a necessity rather than an opportunity and today our children suffer because of it.
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As a female child, I prospered and benefited from having career-oriented female role models.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Also, it wasn't long before divorce became common in the US. Single parent, teen pregnancy, kids abusing acohol and drugs all quickly followed. "Enlightened" secularists would cry "bad parent" or "mental instability caused by chemical imbalance". Usually these secularists had no children of their own so you know how expert they are on the subject.
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Some of these secularists came from broken homes and they certainly have expertise in living in a family that knows no peace. For some people, divorce is the better option, versus growing up in a warzone. There are teen pregnancies and drug abuse in families that are not divorced. And more often then ever, teens are getting pregnant for the sole purpose of getting married (
wed-lock). Seems like women who feel like they have no choice to take care of themselves on their own figure their only way to support themselves is to get married. Kudos to women who have careers and show their daughters that you don't need a man to support yourself.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Most children come out of schools looking for what is the most they can get for the least effort and how little they will settle for. They have little respect for anyone or anything. I know of "men" in their 30's that still live off of their mothers.
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This is quite a broad statement. You presume to know what "children" (IMO young adults) are searching for in their lives. Blanket statements like "They have little respect for anyone or anything" tends to be a bit dramatic, don't you think? (Can you tell I'm a law student?)
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
I cannot understand why it doesn't offend me to hear someone say they are agnostic or atheist but it offends them to hear someone say" under God". It's like we are suppose to be sensitive to their needs but not vice versa.
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Anyone is allowed to declare their faith personally. Everyone has that right. And if one group has a right to add their creed to our national motto, our national pledge, our national anthem, then all creeds have a place in those things:
One nation, under god, under buddha, under einstein, under allah, under jehovah, indivisible
with liberty and justice for all....
You wouldn't object to that, right?
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
If you have any doubt about the religious founding of this country just read the original Articles of Confederation. Trying to make the argument that the government will not establish a national religion means something other than that just does not fly. Too many founding documents have "Creator" or "God" mentioned in them and it was obviously not their intent to have a godless society.
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It's not obvious to me. Please show me how it's obvious that the forefathers intended this nation to worship the Judeo-Christian god?
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
However, contrary to what one poster said, I have seen where a town had banned manger scenes on private property.
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Where?
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Today's children are getting physically mature at a younger age and they have less and less supervision. Without moral direction they will become a danger in today's society. Today's high school grad is no where near the citizen that the school systems used to create.[/QUOTE]
Children are maturing faster physically - the biological clock of humanity is speeding up - because children are less supervised? How is today's high school grad nowhere near the citizen that the school systems used to create? Who is over there in IRAQ dying for the older generations' poor planning and warmongering? America's Army with an
average age of 19, even today.
Yeah, today's high school kids are terrible citizens. <sarcasm> [/quote]
[QUOTE][QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]Secularist tend to not give up an inch even when it's obvious that inch has caused much greater problems than it solved.
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Some examples? Define what you mean by secularist and explain what you mean about giving up inches causing greater problems than 'it' solved - what is 'it'?
Secularism is the rejection or exclusion of any and all religious considerations. Actually the self same people are usually against any form of restriction or discipline of children until a child does harm to them. What "it" is is obvious from the sentence structure. It is whatever inch of so called advancement they have placed upon the general public. Removing the ten commandments, stopping led prayer in school, things like this have put a little grin on secular faces but at what expense? When I went to a large high school in the early 70's, we knew of three pregnant girls the entire three years. We knew of a handful of drug users. I believe that school had a much more responsible and moral class of citizen. I've had this discussion before with young people that were not around then and only go by scary baseless tales of children chained and beaten until they confessed christianity.(It did not happen.) Or children that were beaten silly for not conforming. (Also did not happen. The school absolutely would not tolerate that.) I've heard all the fairy tales but also I was there. If you were atheist (there were few at the time and the world was a better place) or if you were other than Judea-Christian, you said your own prayer silently or no prayer at all. We aren't talking about a 10 minute bible study here. We are talking about 1 minute prayer. Any student that believed anything other than Judea-Christian were invited to discuss there religion to the point we brought adults from their church in to discuss it. They were not mocked or belittled. I learned a lot about different religions and respect them all. Respect was a keyword something grossly lacking by young people today.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Today's children have much less time with a parent than ever before. Instead of a parent being the major influence in their world as in the past, there is now a battle between daycares and television. After WWII there came an opportunity to rise in the class warfare by becoming a two income family and, as many wives had worked during wartime, it easily took hold and became the norm in a very short time. Wasn't long before it became a necessity rather than an opportunity and today our children suffer because of it.
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As a female child, I prospered and benefited from having career-oriented female role models.
Children learn interpersonal relationships from what they see in their home mainly. Single parent homes most often produce children that will grow up to be a single parent. Marriage is not just a business partnership. Single parents usually lead a frustrating life bordering between child neglect and insanity. There are just not enough hours in the day to raise a child properly, pay the bills and have a personal life. It's nice you had female role models, every child should have a role model.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Also, it wasn't long before divorce became common in the US. Single parent, teen pregnancy, kids abusing acohol and drugs all quickly followed. "Enlightened" secularists would cry "bad parent" or "mental instability caused by chemical imbalance". Usually these secularists had no children of their own so you know how expert they are on the subject.
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Some of these secularists came from broken homes and they certainly have expertise in living in a family that knows no peace. For some people, divorce is the better option, versus growing up in a war zone. There are teen pregnancies and drug abuse in families that are not divorced. And more often then ever, teens are getting pregnant for the sole purpose of getting married (
wed-lock). Seems like women who feel like they have no choice to take care of themselves on their own figure their only way to support themselves is to get married. Kudos to women who have careers and show their daughters that you don't need a man to support yourself.
Many teens today get pregnant for that feeling of unconditional love. A love they were suppose to get from a parent that was unfortunately too busy or divorced which cut that chance in half. Yes, there were parents that were abusive to one another and yes there were and are homes abusive to children but that was less and less the norm as you go back in time. One guy beats his child with a board and the next day no parent should lay a hand on a child. One husband knocks his wife's teeth out and the next day half of America is divorced because they had their first argument. It's like doing surgery to relieve a small splinter. What makes it all the more ridiculous is for the school counselors to continue to sensitize our children. Our media does as well. It is paramount to national brainwashing. Prepare for "Child, the state will handle all your problems."
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Most children come out of schools looking for what is the most they can get for the least effort and how little they will settle for. They have little respect for anyone or anything. I know of "men" in their 30's that still live off of their mothers.
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This is quite a broad statement. You presume to know what "children" (IMO young adults) are searching for in their lives. Blanket statements like "They have little respect for anyone or anything" tends to be a bit dramatic, don't you think? (Can you tell I'm a law student?)
I own a small business that hire young people and I've seen them come and go from all walks of life. Their work ethic stinks even more so over the last ten years. For some reason they think a job is an entitlement and not a privilege. I've had to fire some for having temper tantrums, chewing a clients earrings, setting a truck on fire without reporting it for a week, stealing(happens a lot) and many other silly scenarios. I've had them quit because, "Mom said she would pay my bills", " You gave me three Fridays off this month but not four"(they weren't supposed to get any Fridays off), they're spouse quit and wouldn't go back to work so why should they work(they had a small child). I had one I promised a raise to if he would just come in on time. He lived across the street from the office an we gave him wake up calls. He still couldn't get in on time. You and your college friends I applaud but know that for each of you there are ten if not more of these types. You know who they are, you saw them in school. The became adult and your well earned tax dollars will be going to support them. Please know they exist.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
I cannot understand why it doesn't offend me to hear someone say they are agnostic or atheist but it offends them to hear someone say" under God". It's like we are suppose to be sensitive to their needs but not vice versa.
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Anyone is allowed to declare their faith personally. Everyone has that right. And if one group has a right to add their creed to our national motto, our national pledge, our national anthem, then all creeds have a place in those things:
One nation, under god, under buddha, under einstein, under allah, under jehovah, indivisible
with liberty and justice for all....
You wouldn't object to that, right?
Wouldn't object at all if the country was founded on all those religious principles but it wasn't. As a law student I'm sure you would want a disclaimer for every other word of the pledge. Sometimes the law becomes more frivolous than the lawsuits. Again a point of the sufferage of the many because of the indiscretions of the few.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
If you have any doubt about the religious founding of this country just read the original Articles of Confederation. Trying to make the argument that the government will not establish a national religion means something other than that just does not fly. Too many founding documents have "Creator" or "God" mentioned in them and it was obviously not their intent to have a godless society.
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It's not obvious to me. Please show me how it's obvious that the forefathers intended this nation to worship the Judea-Christian god?
Do you need a link for the original Articles of Confederation?
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
However, contrary to what one poster said, I have seen where a town had banned manger scenes on private property.
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Where?
This was a news story around Christmas time I heard on the radio. I don't recall which state. There was also a story of a home with too many Christmas decorations that was order by a township to remove a certain amount of them. Also there was a story of a homeowners group that forced a homeowner to change the color of his home. I will research the exact stories.
[QUOTE=TSheCat,Jan 14 2004, 08:04 AM]
Today's children are getting physically mature at a younger age and they have less and less supervision. Without moral direction they will become a danger in today's society. Today's high school grad is no where near the citizen that the school systems used to create.[/QUOTE]
Children are maturing faster physically - the biological clock of humanity is speeding up - because children are less supervised? How is today's high school grad nowhere near the citizen that the school systems used to create? Who is over there in IRAQ dying for the older generations' poor planning and warmongering? America's Army with an
average age of 19, even today.
Yeah, today's high school kids are terrible citizens. <sarcasm>
Do you have a problem with sentence structure? To say AND they are less and less supervised does not make it the reason they are physically maturing faster. Nor does it have anything to do with a bio clock. It does have to do with growth hormones in our food supply. Your example of troops in Iraq is dramatic but not suitable. Most of today's young recruits in Iraq went in the service for a peace time
army to get benefits. They did not enter thinking there was a chance of getting shot at. Not all are of that ilk but most were. Too many fought tooth and nail to get out as soon as war was declared. When you're in the service, you don't volunteer to go into a war zone. They aren't interested in what you want, they just put you there. Volunteer army does not mean you get to choose what you do. There are those grads that choose to be in a fighting army and those that did not. I applaud all of those that went into harms way of their own volition. I applaud all those that carry out their orders and have an allegiance to their duty. And in particular I applaud all those that enlist during wartime. But do not assume that all troops in Iraq became soldiers to fight for this country. Any time in the military does teach responsibility and honor to a young person. Schools and parents used to do this as well. Schools have decided to forget their responsibilities to parents and single parents will never do the job that a two parent home can. Removing God from school and country has and will continue to to do more harm than good. Less morality, less time with parents, less loyalty to one's country and less concern about honor and reputation and less discipline. It is a prescription for disaster.