QUOTE(christopher @ Feb 22 2004, 10:16 PM)
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I believe that a focus on our present society could do Black History Month a world of good. Black History Month should be used to facilitate open discusssion on race issues between adults.
I do not think that will ever happen. Whenever this subject comes up the most common responses I hear are
We never owned slaves
I havent gotten any preferential treatment in my life
They'll automatically get the job cause they're black, what else do they want
If you don't agree with them you're a racist
I really do not beleive that there will ever be open dialogue about racial issues in this country. The best we will get is that the pain and discomfort will fade as each generation dies out and takes their bigotry with them.
That is precisely what I'm afraid of. Not that it won't work, but it isn't terribly proactive now is it?
I do believe that defensiveness and fear on the part of the majority in our society is a major barrier to communication. As is the anger and distrust in the minority community. The natural response is to distance one's self from this particular part of America's past but ignoring it doesn't make it go away.
This is not a purely philosophical debate, the lack of discussion means the American public has lack of perspective on present day race issues. (Why are African-Americans still so angry, they have rights now don't they? It's not as if intstitutionalized racism in the past has to do with any of the difficulties experienced today.

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QUOTE(christopher)
Where I grew up I went to school with 3 black kids. We were all friends and until we started having lessons on the subject of black culture and slavery and discrimination I can honestly say that we didn't know about any of it. They were just friends. After that however there was a definite separation from then on. The fact they were black was pointed out to us continuously. Any Question on racial issues became "Daryll how does this make you feel" or "Have you experienced this" I think the damage done to them was the worst as they then really understood they were black.
Discussions should, of course, be age appropriate, this is certainly opposite of my experience (most blacks are well aware of "being black" the separation is already there among strangers).
QUOTE(christopher)
Now I have to say that yes the town i grew up in was small, and once we got old enough to travel out the problems of and about race became very apparent, also the bigotry of the parents began to seep into other kids in school as we got older, but in my opinion by continuing to focus on race instead of the individual we only prolong and even promote continued racial tension.
I think that we have to teach children (and encourage adults) to think about society as a whole. Because we live in a democracy our decisions affect more than individuals we know, so we need the perspective. I don't believe discussion will promote tension, it will likely release it because people in America will finally have the chance to
understand one another.
Society will never be color-blind (unless we all be come literally blind) and that's not really a bad thing. The solution to a problem that comes with knowledge (in this case knowledge about a person's race) is not found through ignorance.
QUOTE(christopher)
IMO we have to drag out the misconceptions and bigoted ideas and see them for what they are, STUPID. Then laugh it away. We must however each be honest with ourselves.
That's one element, but the discussion needs to range beyond entertainment...