[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]In that case, Catholic priests are the sickest people on the planet. Obviously, any man who has to live without sex is sick (according to your logic). [/quote]
Excuse me my point might have came off wrong, without Viagra these men cannot physically have sex. The lack of sex doesn't make them sick, the inability to do so is the ailment.
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Without birth control pills, I cannot physically have sex. I do not trust condoms, as many I have used have broken. So my options, if I do not want children - are to remain abstinent or to find an insurance company who will pay for my pills. Luckily my company won't deal with an insurance company that unfairly taxes women. So I don't have to worry about it.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]If Rev is suggesting that women (who do not wish to have children) should refrain from sexual activity or else pay for their own medicine, men should do the same. Because if the well-being of the man depends on his ability to have sex, the same must be true for the woman's well-being. [/quote]
Yes thats exactly what I suggest.
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You suggest that women should refrain from sexual activity if they do not want children? Or you suggest that a woman's well-being depends on a healthy sex life, same as men?
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
Actually I suggest that we leave it up to the insurance companies to run the own companies, and not pander to everyone looking for a hand out at the cost of everyone in the plan.
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You're right. Luckily my insurance plan is one of the largest in the nation, and it pays for birth control. Luckily those who don't will be losing customers quickly and raising your prices as a result.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]You'd rather pay for the cost of unwanted children then the cost of preventative contraception?[/quote]
No, the cost of the insurance will increase due to the sheer number of people that will sign up, and there will probably be an increase in treatment of STD's and cancer as well.
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Apparently my company has figured out a way to make coverage profitable for them. Hopefully your company will stay afloat with all the conservatives in this country - surely they'll be fine.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]There are many alternative ways to treat erectile disfunction. Actually, medication is one of the last resorts. There are also side effects to Viagra. Should these be a reason for insurance companies not to cover Viagra? [/quote]
There is also other ways to prevent pregnancies, like condoms. Whats your point? Mine was that BCP's also has it's negative side effects besides helping with acne.
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My argument is that if you claim that just because there are other ways to prevent pregnancies, a very effective way should be disincluded. If that is your argument, than viagra should also be disinluded because there are other ways to treat erectile disfunction. If you are claiming that BCP should be disincluded because they have negative side effects, then you would also agree that viagra should be disincluded because it has negative side effects. Double standard.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]According to you, yes.
Or maybe only if Viagra was for a woman. Or maybe only if Viagra was for someone of a different morality standard than you. [/quote]
Wow, now you accuse me of being sexist. Add that to the list of Anti-semitic homophobic bigot. Why do always insist on name calling every time someone disagrees with you?

(My lady used to be very confrontational to, then she switch to Ortho Tricyclen Lo

)And for the record I support all of the female fertility drug, the ones that deals with vaginal dryness and chemical imbalances.
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No one is name calling. You are not able to defend your support of insurance companies paying for viagra and not birth control. I have to wonder at your true bias. You are suggesting that families should be helped to have children, but not helped to manage their families through contraception. Is there a reason you feel that families should have societal blessings to procreate but not have societal blessings to choose NOT to procreate? Essentially, that's what insurance companies are doing - giving societal blessings to medical ethics. Your comment about hormones is a bit immature. You should focus on sharpening your argument instead of trying to be witty with insults.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote] Why would a man need to penetrate his lover? For his own pleasure? If you don't believe viagra is prescribed only for procreation, why should science help a man have sex for pleasure, but not help a woman achieve the same goal? [/quote]
Because I agree with Cyan that a healthy sex life is important. I'm pretty sure that a heterosexual women (and Homosexual man) enjoys the penetration of an erect penis just as much as the owner of said penis, thats what makes sex healthy. I fail to see how a women on birth control pills has more pleasure in sex then one that that doesn't.
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Sex is not healthy or enjoyable for a woman who is worried about unwantingly becoming pregnant. A woman on birth control has an ease of mind, and much more sexual liberty in the actual act, than a woman trying to trust a very fragile rubber covering.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]What if a woman wants to have sex, but doesn't want a child? That woman should pay for protection, or else be celibate? Again - why the double standard?[/quote]
Yep, and why do you always assume that the women pays for the birth control?
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If a woman wants the most effective method of birth control - birth control pills, she must pay for them herself. In rare circumstances (
long term monogamous relationships) the man might assume the costs of the medication, but the woman assumes all the responsibility of getting the prescription, filling the prescription, and remembering to take the pill.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
How many women do you see buying condoms?
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Plenty of my friends buy condoms. I tell them to get on BC as soon as they can.
Condoms are less effective than birth control pills. I do not like to use inferior methods.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
There is no double standard. If men want to have sex without having children then I think it's up to them to pay for the condoms, and help pay for birth control in a monogamous relationship.
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Not everyone in this world enjoys having sex in monogamous relationships. Obviously not all men enjoy monogamous relationships. And guess what? Not all females do either.
[quote=Rev_DelFuego,Apr 29 2004, 12:03 PM]
[quote]You'll agree insurance companies should help people have children, but they shouldn't help people manage their families by refraining from having children? This sounds a bit like religious bias to me.[/quote]
Actually, I never said anything about the fertilization issue, but I do agree with it being funded because they have an
ailment that might prevent them from conceiving a child.
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Conceiving a child is not the only objective of health insurance. Raising children that will be productive to this society is a worthy goal. A good number of unwanted children become
ailments to society. Welfare is an ailment of society. Poverty is an ailment to society. These are both ailments caused primarily by the burden of raising
unplanned children. Insurance companies need to take some societal responsibility and step up - stop setting double standards, and take a look at their bottom line, and society's bottom line. Most of them have already, that's why my insurance company pays for contraception. The rest will come around soon.