QUOTE(Paladin Elspeth @ Jul 8 2004, 10:10 AM)
"I terminated my pregnancy; I feel so much better now," right? I did what I wanted to do, so everything is all right.
First of all, of the three women I have known that have had abortions - none of whom have engaged in sexual relations with me, so I was taken into confidence as a friend or family member rather than as a potential father - none expressed anything remotely like the sentiments you have characterised. On the contrary, their mood was depressed and anxious for some time - something more akin to mourning than the celebration you seem to think exists. They all expressed this in their own way, but they all went through the same sense of sadness, depression, loss, call-it-what-you-will.
None did it because there was a promotion in the offing - though one did take the view that her position in life and career was not settled enough to support a baby, so she came to the view that abortion was the best available option. She chose this above birth and adoption because she calculated that she would face more emotional distress at giving away a baby than terminating a pregnancy.
Oh, and as a footnote to this point, I was not involved at all in the decision making process, either not being aware of the abortion at the time, or not knowing the person in question at all until after it had taken place.
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There has always been cruelty in society. To use that as an excuse to terminate a life when your average human being does not possess godlike omniscience is hubristic.
I wasn't talking about cruelty at all, though it seems that I wasn't precise enough to preclude that interpretation.
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You're going to have a miserable life, kid, so I'm going to kill you because you might suffer; is that humanitarian?
The whole point of this debate is to
attempt to establish when personhood begins. I've already stated that I support the Sagan interpretation that the development of the capacity for thought, around the end of the second trimester/beginning of the third.
So, by definition, I do not believe that the fetus before this point
is a kid, therefore I wouldn't have a problem weighing a likely miserable life against a unlikely happy one for a non-person, any more than I would mind killing an animal to serve what I considered to be a higher purpose (I'm not vegetarian, btw).
As soon as the fetus passes the point at which I might be able to think of it as a "kid" and address it in the way you describe, killing it would be unconscionable, which is why I don't support late term abortions (except in the odd case of uterine death or monstrous abnormalities like anencephaly), or infanticide, or murder. (Or the death penalty.)
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I'm glad it wasn't my mother's reasoning.
Clearly, had your mother used that reasoning, we wouldn't be having this conversation, and you would not be in a position to be glad or sad or anything else about it.
I don't believe that some essential essence of Paladin Elspeth would have hung around in the ether to have regetted its non-birth. If you
do, it goes some way to explaining why you believe as you do on abortion, but it's a whole other debate that we probably couldn't have here as it most likely comes under "religion".
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Should not personhood be a basic right? Is it not ironic that those who were allowed to be born feel it is their right to deny birth to another?
Well, I think personhood is a basic right
of those that already have it. We shouldn't be able to take it from someone once they have it, I agree. We have the right to keep our personhood, but even that is within certain prescriptions where it becomes waivable by others as defined by the society we live in (war, criminal punishment etc.).
There are still far too many real tangible beings with full and obvious personhood who have it taken away from them now, today, because of our societies' actions or inactions. I think that these situations require more urgent and pressing attention from society as a whole, and its legislative and executive arms in government, than admittedly real tangible beings that only have questionable and obscure personhood.
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If women feel the most expedient way to prevent being denied a promotion because of pregnancy is abortion, then abortions will continue to take place. As long as elective abortion is around, no one feels compelled to find an alternative solution, magical or otherwise; and there are employers in tacit agreement with the aspiring female professional about "problem" pregnancies and the obvious "solution." How much do you want your promotion?
This would be a useful line of reasoning for your position, had not abortion been, until relatively recently, illegal. (It certainly was in the UK before 1967, and as far as I am aware it was in the USA before Roe vs Wade?)
Elective abortion was not then around as anything other than an illegal, stigmatised and often dangerous option - plenty of incentive to make the societal changes you identify, yet it did not happen.
Believe it or not, I too would like to get society to a place where abortions are not required. But I think that would entail a huge, society-wide reassessment of attitudes to contraception and contraceptive research, of the treatment of women in the workplace (particularly pregnant women, and mothers), of the whole importance society places on work and life outside it, of the treatment of men and women by each other, and of the treatment of children by everyone.
I simply do not think that we will ever get to a position where abortion is unneccessary by confining ourselves to the rights and wrongs of abortion itself, or the possession or non-possession of personhood by this embryo, that fetus, or that baby. To this extent, debating abortions themselves is irrelevant to the wider debate on abortion. We're arguing over what type of guttering we should put on the house when it rains, when we haven't got a roof yet.