QUOTE(Looms)
First off, you ignored the point about an egg being a potential life. It most certainly is. Second if the problem is the "unnatural killing", then you would have no problem with a baby being dropped off in the woods and starved to death? Starvation is natural. What is the point here?
If an unfertilized egg is a potential life, then a fertilized egg is the next step, a life. That's the point I've been trying to make in every post. When I first said "potential life" in the stead of "life," I put it with the phrase, "if you will." I do not think of a fertilized egg as a potential life at all--it is a life. I was addressing those who would choose to make an argument of what I was saying because I was calling it a "life." I think your reaction proves that yes, indeed, there is a lot of hair splitting that goes on over the terms here.
Starvation in the woods is a natural death. A responsible person dropping that baby off in the woods to die is NOT NATURAL. Hence, I, as well as any thinking, caring person, would have a problem with it.
While the denotation of "parasite" seems true to the meaning of a developing life within, the connotation
sucks. Divorce the connotative meanings from the denotative meanings and the whole act of finding a life partner, pairing and producing progeny is reduced to a scientifically-described act of biology devoid of the meaning that we as members of the human species derive from it.
QUOTE(Looms)
More irresponsible to whom? To the child, of course. One one hand you have a woman who will give birth to a child, doesn't have a CLUE how that child will be provided for, whether it will ever be adopted, etc., etc., etc., and on the other hand you have a woman who chooses to undo the pregnancy, to NOT bring a child into the world that they have no clue how to take care off, to NOT birth and discard. It has nothing to do with "impact on society", I think you read enough of my rants and raves to know how much I care about "society".
So in order to be responsible for that child's welfare, I need to
kill it before it's born, because I don't know how it will be cared for. In other words, I'm actually doing the kid a favor.

I think not.
Aside from a rich kid whose needs have been seen to by Mummy, Daddy and financial planners from conception or before, do any of us really know where we are going to end up and whether we are going to experience hardship and suffering? That's not an excuse to end a life in the womb, unless we want the privileged classes to do all of the childbearing. We don't need impoverished or inopportuned women to cover all the bases. Bring the child to term, and there will be someone to help that child, whether it's a crack baby, or perfectly healthy.
As far as males masturbating away populations akin to what Hitler or Stalin murdered, I really don't give a rat's keester about what they discard. In addition, menstruation is a natural process without which, pregnancy would not occur.
I really don't care whether an unfertilized egg and a sperm are "potential lives," any more than I know that while breathing and walking around I am a "potential death." I am purely interested in the well-being of life, before and after it is born. I
am against depriving a person of life, whether through abortion, war, or assault by an individual, a group, or the state. Everyone, regardless of their situation, should have the right to live and breathe.
lederuvdapac described it very well with the butterfly. No one places much stock or value in an ugly, insignificant little caterpillar. And then the butterfly emerges. A lovely comparison.