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I don't understand how openmindedness can be a bad quality. Are you stating that you every time you have listened to someone else speak, you have just been letting them talk at you until they stop, then reiterate you point? You have never considered someone elses opinion or idea, and found it to be better or more useful in some way? Being open to new ideas doesn't mean forfeiting your own ideas, it means listening and evaluating other opinions/ideas with the ability to accept/reject them (to me). I see this as a very valuable asset because no one person has all the answers. One can be skeptical, but shutting out others ideas is just tomfoolery.
Not only am I stating
that every time you have listened to someone else speak, you have just been letting them talk at you until they stop, then reiterate you're point, but that everyone does this.
HOW? That is the true question. How do I see this? Because as humans we apply everything into our own little world and how it benefits us. Point to a person who did things for what you deem "unselfish reasons" and I will find the self centeredness in them. However, you may disagree that certain actions are acts of self promotion, to which you default your own open mindedness to explore the possibility, that ever "selfless" act is selfish in nature.
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Real wisdom is the knowledge of the truth. The more wisdom one possesses the more truth one knows. Wise men are always open to new information, but they are very careful not to believe new information, unless they can be certain that it is true.
It in this "wisdom" that the introduction of bias attitudes or as I said "no one is truly open in mind to hear others words." In the pursuit to determine whether or not the new information is valid, we as humans introject with our bias views to determine more so whether or not the new information fits our bias logical sense.
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The wiser one is the less likely he or she is to change. This is not because the wise man is becoming closed minded, but it is because he knows more truth to begin with.
Now truth to me is bias and worthy of a whole new debate, but as you can see those who believe they hold the truth, despite new information that is contrary, it will always be perceived as non information.
EXAMPLE: Quote the Washington Post to a Republican or FOX News to a Democrat. If the subject is not accounted for in another source, then the subject is false. This is due to the person own lack of an open mind, and control of their own bias wisdom.
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There is a fine line between open-mindedness and credulousness. Open-minded men and women, without strict discernment, often mire themselves in an intractable morass of deception. At this point, open-mindedness takes priority over truth, and a distorted perception of truth is believed. Hence, real wisdom is lost.
This applies to my second statement about open-mindedness, "and those who are (open minded), never have much mind to added to the topic." The fact that an open minded person, in order to maintain the stance of open minded, will dismiss truth and wisdom that they know solid within themselves. This dismissal may satisfy the person's needs to remain open minded but has created a conflict between the logic the know to be true and the new information wisdom determines to be false. In my other words, the person probably did not have much of a mind (wisdom or knowledge of truth) to add to the topic. Which leads back to the question I asked
Lesly, "how can one stand firm, yet be open minded to others?"
You asked, "You have never considered someone elses opinion or idea, and found it to be better or more useful in some way?" Only after the opinion or idea was founded to be truthful. You answered your own question yet had forgot what it means to be open minded. "Being open to new ideas doesn't mean forfeiting your own ideas, it means listening and evaluating other opinions/ideas with the ability to accept/reject them (to me)." Open mindedness is being having or showing receptiveness to new and different ideas or the opinions of others. Receptiveness being open to receive. It is this openness to receive the new information that humans that have wisdom or truth can not do. One can not receive new ideas without rejecting them or accepting. This is the hypocrisy of open mindedness.
It is in the hypocrisy of open mindedness that makes a strong leader lack open mindedness, for the strong lead has wisdom and truth. This doesn't not mean that the strong leader does not receive new information or hear the ideas of others, but means that the strong leader has truth and wisdom that far exceeds open mindedness. If the strong leader was made to check the fact of ever mind that openly came to him, then he would never accomplish his goals, yet if the leader stands firm in truth and wisdom to obtain his goals, all new ideas that his or her level of truth, or as you put it, their level of acceptance, then they are not openly received but openly applied to the leader goals.
Wisdom and truth are values strong leaders have, open mindedness by definition the receptiveness to new and different ideas are not values. It is the strong leaders wisdom and truth that help define which ideas shall be received and which shall, as you put it, be rejected.