In this topic several people keep referring to the "Black Culture" that is holding people back, responsible for their poverty and their inability to rise above it, etc.
This is not "Black Culture". "Black Culture" is Jazz, among many other things. What people keep calling "Black Culture" is not African, or African-American at all, it is Urban. I find it hard to believe that anyone who says this is a problem of "Black Culture" could have possibly ever lived in a moderate or low income area in any City.
I have. What you see there, in many people of all manors of race, sex, and sexual persuasion is a "culture" of failure rooted in a sense of hopelessness and a dislike of success that I believe is rooted in envy. Kids in Urban schools look down on kids who are academically successful. The race of the successful child, or the race of the kids that dislike their success is irrelevant as it runs the gambit. Rap, Gang Violence, Provocative Clothes, Street Slang, etc., have NOTHING to do with race and EVERYTHING to do with the environment you're raised in, Not to mention your parents and other adult influences ability or inability in regard to raising and teaching you.
I have lived in these neighborhoods. I have lived in some where garbage was everywhere, no one thought they could succeed or tried, and where crime was rampant and no one cared.
I have live in neighborhoods that were in the same poor school districts, the same poor housing, with the same mix of people making up the block. Yet, that block was always clean, if anyone was dumb enough to try to commit a crime their the neighbors who come out against them in force and the children generally did better in school. The difference between the two type of neighborhoods in the Urban core have nothing to do with race, money, etc. It has everything to do with HOPE. Something, in the second neighborhood caused the people their to regain hope that they could have something better. Perhaps on neighbor got fed up and cases of a drug dealer and lived, perhaps a local cop who actually cared finally convinced the neighbors that he/she did care, who knows. Whatever it was, hope slowly returned.
I watched a neighborhood in Kansas City Mo., which once had a dozen crack house within it's 18 blocks and where you could buy a 3 floor Victorian, 10 minutes from downtown, for 20,000.00 or less find hope.
One man, coincidentally a Gay Man, moved in. He tried to get involved with the local neighborhood group and after a year or so got fed up because all the group did was whine and complain but never act. He formed his own neighborhood association. Over the next year people started to get involved. Black People, White People, Hispanic People, Native-American People, Straight People, Gay People, BI People, Dirt Poor people, Working Poor People, Lower Middle Class People, even one Wealthy lady, Catholics, Atheists, Protestants, and a Shaman.
The results? First, they went after the Crack Houses. It took awhile but once they figured out the politics they got them all out. It took 2 years.
Then they went after the streets. They had parties to clean the trash, in just a year we went from dodging needles, used condemns and empty crack vials to never seeing any of them and being left with just the junk inconsiderate drivers toss out windows.
Then they convinced the local catholic grade school to drop religion from their school day curriculum to better serve the diverse neighborhood and they started to get heavily involved in the school board meetings and PTA meetings for the public schools. From what I hear, Kansas City Public Schools are really improving over the past few years. Many credit this to the new superintendent and the greater parental involvement the in your average urban school district.
They pooled together and helped each other rehab their houses, I knew electric, he knew plumbing, she knows tuck-pointing, etc. The neighbors were each turning their homes around a little at a time.
They got together and raised funds and planted trees along the streets.
They got together and helped paint, and repair the outsides of houses of the elderly who could not do it.
They started calling in complaint to the codes department on the properties Absentee landlords allowed to deteriorate.
They were able to make the neighborhood an official historic district.
They worked tirelessly to completely rehab a beautiful Property of one neighbor who then volunteered it for BBQs and events to attract real estate agents to show them how far the neighborhood had come and where it was headed.
The result, Old Hyde Park, Kansas City is a fabulous place to live, with a diverse culture. But, you better bring your checkbook because those 20,000.00 houses now cost 150,000.00 or more just 10 years later.
The point here is that hope came back. With it, came the willingness of people to work to succeed at something. The kids, obviously with some exceptions, generally did better in school. That 18 block neighborhood had I believe 80 or so kids in school when I was there. I remember when I visited 2 years ago how my old friends raved about have that had "almost 3 dozen kids" in honor classes, and not one kid had dropped out of school in 2 years.
They told me about all the fundraisers they were doing to raise money to help kids goto college and raved about the leaps and bounds of improvement had been made in the city schools since I moved to Saint Louis.
In the Urban Core. Race is irrelevant. You succeed or Fail based on your level of Hope, Support from family and neighbors, and the Tools and Resources available to you. It is terrible that more Urban kids can't benefit from the Renaissance that is happening in small neighborhoods in many metropolitan areas across America.
The "Culture" that is the problem, is the Urban "Culture" of failure, and a lack of hope. Thinking this is a "Black thing" is a mistake. You can't possibly fix a problem if you can't properly identify it.
As for "Assimilation". The only Assimilation in Old Hyde Park, is that your either get involved and work with the neighbors or you don't. But anyone who drives through there can't help but notice the wide differences in cultural identities that can be seen in the ways people outwardly express their heritage, as well as other type of identity in the displays and decorations of their homes and the way they celebrate the various holidays.
Lack of hope is the problem Not the color of people skin. You will find countless White Homeless men, Hookers, Thieves and Drug Dealers in the Urban Core. Most grew up there, and the commonality between them usually is a lack of hope that they could have something better that they were raised with.
The only thing that makes this a "Black Thing" is that fact that more black people live in these kinds of neighborhoods and the media loves to do stories on the plight of "Black America" rather then the reality of the plight of "Urban America".
What a great American story. This is a perfect example of what progress is possible when people forget about "race" and those ancient histories and work together as a team toward a common goal. This is an example of what America is all about. it's not about forgetting your "identity", it's about putting in perspective what really matters. And "race aint it".