I too would like to wish everyone a Happy RamaHunaKwanSolMas!!!!

And a happy New Year, which applies to any calender and is not restricted to just those who rightly or wrongly consider December 31st to be the last day of the year or even to exist. I would also like to point out that I also wish happiness to all those who do not believe in anything, unless of course they do not believe in happiness in which case I could wave, but will not because I wish not to offend anyone who might think waving with one hand or the other or simply waving at all is wrong. So in the case of those that do not believe in anything I will do my best no to believe in you to honor your tradition, or lack there of. I hope I got that right, the PC police are becoming tiresome.
My family had all sorts of traditions at one time.
Prior to Christmas my Mom would decorate. She would always have to beg for my father and I to participate, we eventually would only do so grudgingly. It was something of a family tradition.

Dad would go up into the attic, bang his head, curse, finally find the boxes of Christmas stuff and drag them back, bang his head, curse, and then bring them to my Mom. Mom had certain ornaments that were special. Some, she would wait for Dad to be around to put up. Others I had to put up, etc. However, comentary, of a differing opinion was simply not an option when it came to the decorations in general, it was Mom's way, or it was Mom's way, or if you really put up a fight it was Mom's way.

In the end we would all gather up to put the Angel or Star on the top of the tree. And there really was a simple feeling of joy just in doing that.
My Dad didn't put lights on the house, he didn't like them, but they would put other decorations out, like plastic garland on the porch handrail, electric candles in the windows, etc.
Christmas Eve was at my parents house and all my uncles, aunts, and grandparents would come. I became smaller as they all had kids, so for most of my memories it was just me and my folks, both sets of grandparents and my aunt and uncle on my father's side.
My Mother's Mother had her roll. A roll of film that is (more like 100)

. She was also the baker of the family. She made "Jesus' Birthday Cake" which was in the form of a Christmas Tree.
We would have a family dinner. At the start my father would say grace. There was always something special about that. Dinner was always waaaaay too much food I would always overstuff myself. When desert came around all of the men would have eaten too much for it, so they would head downstairs to the pool table in the basement (and beer) While the women stayed at the table for coffee and desert and family talk.
We would gather together again to exchange family presents. The youngest person there would pass out all the family presents one at a time (All the ones that they brought marked "Santa" had already been hidden for there miraculous appearance on Christmas morn).
It was such a wonderful time.
My Father's Father would have a special toast, just before bed. It was always something new, and thoughtful regarding best wishes for the coming year.
Every year around this time I think back to those times. We have new traditions now, usually spending Christmas at my In-Laws house with my Mom visiting. But I think we ned our own. I would like to bring some of those traditions from my youth back to my family. Now, that I am the eldest male in my family in a way, it feels like it is my job. But the time seems to disappear each year before you can even consider what you want to do.
So, it will likely be another year without the start of a new, or return of an old tradition or two. But who knows, and there is always next year.
These last few years this holiday has been pretty hard on me. The loss of my Father was really tough, but his absence on Christmas, more then anything, really hits home.
So this year, I will take the step to try to introduce my new family to the tradition of the toast. Next year, I think I will take on the job of REALLY (in a Tim Taylor sort of way) Light the house, and who knows what will come next.
Merry Christmas Everyone!!!! errr.....oopps, please refer to above disclaimer.