QUOTE(Artemise @ Jan 19 2005, 09:48 AM)
What Christians dont seem to understand is, they are really stepping on peoples toes with it and it takes some restraint not to react. Sorry but I think this should be an open topic to discuss, but there is no religious forum on this board.
While I don’t think this board should get into doctrinal discussions, I do think it is appropriate to discuss how religion operates in relation to public policy. Broad and vocal support for Bush among religious conservatives has set a pattern which will not be reversed, at least any time soon.
Further, any culture or sub-culture, that attempts to impose its will on others should be fair game. It seems to me that fundamentalist and evangelicals (there is overlap in these two groups, though they are not the same in all cases) want to eat their cake and have it too (if you are the Unabomber) otherwise "have your cake and eat it too"—that is, they should be free to criticize, to pass judgment and to set norms, but don’t want to be criticized or have their beliefs scrutinized.
QUOTE(Artemise)
How not to get too personal? Where can this reality finally be discussed without beating around the bush of bullcrap. Most of us have been accosted by a Christian group at least once in our lifetime, if they have not come to our houses and rang our doorbells they have come up to us on the street, charging hellfire and damnation for all us 'sinners'. I have been accused and harrassed on the street by groups of Christians of being a 'sinner' for taking fashion photos, and my subjects were young want-to-be models, fully dressed and I was just taking their picture, in full city view, nothing lewd or nasty, but these Christians go about looking for some sinner, surrounded us and we had to move
Artemise has nailed this one. Evangelicals do not even follow the advice given in the
Bible they take so literally. Peter gave the following advice, “Always be willing to give a logical defense to anyone who asks you to account for the hope that is in you, but do it courteously and respectfully." [some translations use the words meekness and gentleness] I Peter 3:15
Amplified VersionThe problem I have encountered on many occasions, is that the person intent on “selling” their religion to someone else, rarely if ever, waits to be asked. Instead of acting with respect or gentility, the approach is often like running over someone with a Mack truck.
Here are a few examples to back up what Artemise has said. In the 1970s and 1980s I rode a bicycle nearly everyday. One evening I was riding and a guy stopped me and asked about my “racing” bike. I explained that it was touring bike and I had recently gone on a tour of New England with the Fort Worth Bicycling Association. His question about the bike was just a way to get his foot in the door. He then asked me “Do you know where you would go if you died tonight?” I answered, “I guess they’d take my body to the morgue” and rode off.
One Sunday afternoon I was sitting on my father’s front porch. Watching NFL football on Sunday afternoon was a ritual I enjoyed with my father until his death in 1981. As I was sitting on the porch, two of those guys, who ride around on bicycles with sports coat and tie and no helmet, came up. They introduced themselves as “the missionaries” and asked if we could talk. I told them “No, the Cowboy game is about to start and I want to go in and watch it.” One of them then asked, “Do you think a football game is more important than your eternal soul?” I told them “Right now seeing the game and visiting my father is more important than whatever you want to talk about.”
Then there was the Saturday morning that the Jehovahs’ Witnesses came to the door. I was in the shower, so I got out and went to the door and hollered, “Who is it?” They identified themselves and requested that I open the door. I told them that unless they wanted to see me “butt naked” that that wouldn’t be a good idea. They then asked if they could leave some literature and I told them that I didn’t read “
Watchtowers."
One morning about 2:00 a.m., I was sitting in Denny’s reading a book. There were two guys that looked to be about college age sitting in another booth. One of them got up and made his way to my table and asked, “Has anyone ever clearly presented the gospel of Jesus Christ to you?” ( Can anyone who has lived their entire life in what H. L. Mencken called the "buckle on the Bible Belt" not have heard it) Without even thinking I told him in my best school teacher tone, “Go sit down!” Fortunately, he said, "Ok" and made his way back to his table.
One afternoon, when I had just gotten home from school, a young girl rang the doorbell and identified herself as a member of a rather conservative church. I asked her how old she was. She said twelve. Fearing for her safety, I asked if there were an adult with her. She said “yes” and I asked her to go fetch the adult. The adult turned out to be a male, who looked like he was maybe 17-years-old. I told them to go back and tell their pastor, or whoever sent them, that I was 58-years-old and didn’t need children coming by to explain the mysteries of life to me.
In retrospect, the most humorous incident occurred about three years ago in a downtown coffee shop. One of the customers routinely brought in a bag full of
Bibles and other religious books. He was also a chess player (I’m not) and about the only time he wasn’t reading his books or trying to convert others was when someone engaged him in a chess game. That morning I had taken some of my
Billboard books to the coffee shop and was doing some research on pop music. He asked what I was doing, I told him and then he said “you need to quit working on that and get yourself in the word of god for 2 or 3 hours a day.” I told him I wasn’t interested in the word of god, at which point he jumped up from his table, came over to mine and said, “You are a fool, you have always been a fool, I’ve been trying to show you the truth for three years and you don’t listen.” He then pointed to a verse in
The Revelation and quoted something about taking away from or adding to and assured me I was on a fast track to hell. The guy described himself as a messianic Jew. A few weeks before he had jumped all over the owner of another coffee shop for putting bacon on a sandwich he had ordered. The owner, whom I believe, said it was an accident and she had made him another sandwich, but he claimed it was intentional and intended as an affront to his Jewish heritage. Despite the fact that he was now Christian (or a Christianized or Messianic Jew) he still followed the Old Testament strictures against eating pork. While he was still ranting, I said, “I haven’t had lunch. I’m going next door to Tommy’s (a hamburger joint) to get a bacon cheese burger. Do you want to join me?" He didn’t opt for a cheesburger, and although I usually don’t eat burgers, never did one taste sooooooooooo!! Good.
The point of all this is that the clause in the Constitution that provides for freedom of religion must imply that we also have freedom from religion.
I have no quarrel with people worshipping as they please, where they please, when they please or not "worshipping" at all. What I, and I think Artemise, detest is having people try to shove their version of truth down our throats.
BTW: Haranguing, bludgeoning, intimidating someone with your beliefs, especially when they are not interested, is a form of hate speech. No, it shouldn’t be criminalized, but it’s practitioners should be sensitive enough not to intrude where they are not wanted.