[quote=Victoria Silverwolf,Apr 5 2005, 06:29 AM]
[quote]I'm not sure what kind of "scientific proof" (given your rejection of all the social sciences) you would accept as evidence that there is a basic inequality in the roles that society expects of women and men.[/quote]Actually, there is logical background behind most of them. The problem only arises when people attempt to
enforce such divisions of labor instead of allowing people to fall into their roles by the dictates of efficiency.
[quote]I could point out the most obvious examples, I suppose. Consider the lives of women under the Taliban. Consider the international crime of female genital mutilation.[/quote]Consider the lives of men under Judaism. Consider the international crime of male genital mutilation. My boyfriend's a jew, ma'am, so I'm close enough to the issue that I feel free to comment on it. Do you oppose this? Please do. I think that it should be banned.
[quote]Consider the number of women who have been murdered for the sake of "honor" after having violated societal norms (such as being seen holding hands with a boy.)[/quote]Yeah. This is one of the reasons that I'm against religion as a matter of principle.
[quote]Of course, things here in the USA are not anywhere near that bad.[/quote]Thankfully.
[quote]I hope this can be seen as evidence that there is
something wrong with the relationship between the sexes.[/quote]No, men just have greater physical strength and are generally perfectly capable of fending off any forceful attentions from women. By the way, men are also expected by their culture to be tolerant of unwanted sexual advances by women.
[quote]Sorry, I'm just a member of the human race.[/quote]I think that this was his point.
[quote]There is nothing at all wrong with what
hayleyanne choose to do. My point is that, if
hayleyanne had made a very different choice -- leaving the vast majority of child care to a husband, for example -- society would not approve of it as much.[/quote]Are you kidding? I live in a fairly conservative region and, even here, she would have received a round of applause.
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This is the attitude that I would like to change. This is one of the situations in which I think that American society's deep sexism harms men to a much greater degree than it does women.[/quote]In some cases, I would agree that it does. My bf's trying to fend off a suit that he wouldn't even be able to hold up, and that's after he hasn't even done anything wrong.
[quote]A woman may be proud to be a "tomboy;" no man wants to be called a "sissy" or a "girly-man."[/quote]You ever heard of drag queens?
[quote]This is irrelevant to me. Let's pretend for a moment that gender roles are 100% biologically determined.[/quote]I'd say that "influenced" is a better word, and it's largely physiological.
[quote]If this were true -- if our DNA resulted in the submission of one-half of humanity to the other half -- then it would be our ethical duty to overcome our biological limitations to make things more equal.[/quote]The thing is, this isn't true at all. Women wouldn't be very effective in rearing offspring if they weren't perfectly capable of being jackboots. Also, I think that most people have things backwards; there is actually scientific evidence of a biological process that causes men to have difficulty thinking clearly when in the presence of an attractive member of the opposite sex. If women are affected similarly, then I would think that it would be a fair statement that the feeling is fairly mutual.
[quote]I deny the assertion that biologically-determined aspects of human behavior (if there are any such things) cannot be changed, but this doesn't matter either.[/quote]If you want to get yourself 'roided up, that's your dish.
[quote]It cannot be denied that gender roles in the United States in 2005 are much, much different from what they were a mere century ago. Either these behaviors were culturally-determined, or else this is strong evidence that biologically-determined behaviors can be changed. I don't care which one is true; I just celebrate the change.[/quote]I think that this is better explained by the invention of baby formula and by the steady advancements in labor-saving machinery. Men just have more brute strength than women, though I found it interesting that some researchers seem to believe that women are capable of having more strength per body mass. Also, I don't suggest putting a guy with meat-cleaver hands to work in the kitchen; he might hurt himself. Men make better chefs, though!

[quote]To get back to the question raised by
Julian, the only role government can play is to forbid sex discrimination. (The Equal Rights Amendment would have been a nice place to start.)[/quote]I agree. Nearly all of the problems that the bill's opponent's pointed out would have been avoided through the route of simple common sense.
[quote]A much more important way to "influence how people think about work" (and many other aspects of life) is by pointing out that they have many more choices than they thought. Welcome the man who is "feminine" and the woman who is "masculine."[/quote]To each the position that he or she is best suited to fill.
[quote]If this is tilting at windmills, then I am proud to be Donna Quixote.
[/quote]Personally, I think that you might wish to give your opinions more thought. I'm a strong supporter of feminism, but I think that there are enough misperceptions in this regard to write a book on.