QUOTE(Cube Jockey @ Apr 1 2005, 02:30 PM)
QUOTE(carlitoswhey)
CJ, do you mean to tell me that, if you left your wonderful partner and moved in with a new one and fathered two kids, your current partner's parents should still look to you as the moral authority over their daughter's decision making? Seriously? "Period, end of story?"
Completely irrelevant example Carlito. First of all my wife and I will in a very short matter of time both having Living Wills. Neither one of us wants to live a shell of a life on some machine and we have even talked about it with friends to make sure it is clear. (and now I suppose it is recorded in cyberspace) I guess that is one good thing that has come out of this case. Secondly California has no common law marriage laws and therefore it wouldn't really matter what her parents thought, provided I was still married to her I would have power over medical decisions.
However, you cannot simply boil it down the way you have - divorced from all the circumstances in this case. Something like this is an intimately personal decision and it is something where everyone's circumstances are different. You nor anyone else has the right to butt in and say their piece on the matter. Furthermore, you (nor I) don't even know all the circumstances of this case - you only know what the media and pundits are telling you.
Firstly, always appreciate your willingness to keep things civil.
Now, I apologize for making you the hypothetical that you find so irrelevant, but I would like to push this a bit. Whatever the circumstances in this case, you are saying that, because of California law, you would be the ultimate arbiter of your current wife's medical decisions. Even if you left her, moved in with another woman and fathered two children. You are stating that
this is the law. I am asking
is this right? For you to answer that "the law makes it right" doesn't wash given your occasional stance on other areas where "rightness" trumps law, because the
law or its application is wrong.
QUOTE(cube jockey)
That last paragraph is really the key, but of course these supporters and Congressional Republicans don't care about that - at least not until someone starts looking at their lives under a microscope anyway.
By "these supporters and Congressional Republicans," you realize that you mean Alan Dershowitz, Jesse Jackson, Mickey Kaus, Ralph Nader, Joe Lieberman and the following list House Democrats, who voted "yes" on Terri's Law?
roll call voteQUOTE
Democrats Voting Yes
Baca, Baird , Barrow , Bean , Berry , Bishop (GA) , Boren , Brady (PA) , Chandler , Costello , Cramer , Cuellar , Cummings , Davis (TN) , Edwards , Engel , Etheridge , Fattah , Ford , Green, Al , Herseth , Higgins , Holden , Jackson ,
Kanjorski , Kildee , Langevin , Lipinski , Lynch , Marshall , Matheson , McIntyre , McNulty , Meek (FL) , Melancon , Michaud , Mollohan , Oberstar , Pomeroy , Ross ,
Scott (GA) , Serrano , Skelton , Snyder , Stupak , Tanner , Wynn