QUOTE(Artemise @ Apr 22 2005, 06:32 AM)
All you pro-war people, especially military always want to go to your wars and then recieve tons of pity for doing so, even when half the world thinks its wrong. You expect noone to object, even when they object to abuse of power for the sake of specifically 'your lives' in the military.
Sometimes I think we should just let you go off and have your wars and your killing fantasies if thats what you want to do, but expect NOTHING of gratitude, pity or yellow ribbons because its really just your death wish, this killing thing- not ours, so do your bit and have at it, but dont pretend you do it for us, because you dont.
I think if you actually took the time, you would be hard pressed to find very many "Pro-War" people in the US Military.
Death wish? Was that really the motivation behind those who were
DRAFTED to serve in Vietnam? I highly doubt it. As for my voluntary service in the US Military decades later, my goal was education in a trade, specifically electrical work. When a real war came to my door, I did not cheer, nor did I cower. I accepted my role in it as one I had chosen, when I volunteered to serve as a means to bettering my education. I swore an oath, and I honored it.
Did I want yellow ribbons, parades, etc.? Frankly no. I would have much preferred to remain assigned close to home and family, and never see this country in a war. However, when the country did goto war, regardless of the politics of it, it was my sworn duty, as a member of the US military at the time, to go.
When I decided to return to the military through the reserves, it was because of the Iraq situation heating up. However, I did so, not because of a death wish, nor because of a love of war. I did so because I had been a participant in the last war in the region, I felt we left the job unfinished, and I felt obligated to make my experience available because not doing so, in my mind, put more young kids at risk.
I would like to ask you one thing:
What is the difference between you saying all those who served have a death wish, and someone else saying all those who dodged the draft were cowards? I don't see a difference, each statement is both nieve and bigoted.
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Jane Fonda never killed anyone, which cannot be said for those angry at her.
You can really say with certainty that all those who served in Vietnam killed people? Blanket statements rarely contain the truth.
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She had a big mouth but she didnt have a gun and she didnt sheepishly march to slaughter other people because her government foolishly told her to do so. People went there, murdered other people and had no idea what the hell they were doing it for and have no justifiable reason for doing so today, except they were pawns in their governments great lie, as usual. It must be a hard thing to deal with. Perhaps one time in history someone will just say NO.
Yes she had a big mouth. And she had the right to use it. However, what she had to say damaged the opinion others had of her, just as what other protesters had to say did the same. But, she went a step further, she went and visited with the country and government we were fighting, she helped their propaganda machine and as a result, many who served in that conflict, who have resolved differences with most other protesters in regard to this war, can't quite find it within themselves to forgive her.
As for the charges of murder. Perhaps you should review the history of the region and see what the North Vietnamese regularly did to the South Vietnamese before leveling such charges. The most brutal side in this conflict was the North Vietnamese. We can argue about the need for America to involve herself there, though frankly, it would not be much of an argument as I would likely agree with you. But to paint every person who served over there as a murderer (which I guess is a tad better then baby-killer) is a dis-service to all those who served. Some crossed the line, unfortunately, that is something that can happen in war, but you are talking as if every vet of that conflict did so. That is inaccurate at best and a perfect example of bigoted thinking at worst.
It is obvious that you do not understand life in the Military. There is no such thing as free will, only following orders. To blame the soldiers for the actions of the politicians is a perfect example of what was wrong with the protesters of the vietnam war. Spit on a soldier who lived to come home, a man who was obligated to go, and chose to honor that obligation. Blame the man on the ground instead of the politician that sent him there.
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Until that day, blaming Jane Fonda for what happened with the war, protest against the war, US government incompetance and ones own stupidity is just a pathetic attempt to elevate oneself to a level of meaning and superiority, when in fact there is none in this case.
You might want to re-think accusing others of superiority issues. It seems to me that problem is in full effect on both sides of this issue.
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The soldiers were duped. Im sorry thats what happened. Concentrate on Fonda after 40 years if they like, it will not change the facts that they were lied to and used. Better to deal with that than keep lying to oneself and blaming someone else for some stupid acts o bravado. Im sure in the Vietnam Vet there are many heinous acts which time whould be better spent asking for forgiveness for oneself rather than placing blame on someone else.
Sorry, but having family members who served and are still alive I can tell you that the vast majority are not "Concentrating on Jane Fonda". They won't be buying her book, and they do not spend time or money on her movies or what not, but outside of that, they really don't give her a thought.
How is this boycott of her by a good portion of the vets any different then a boycott of say Denny's Restaurants for various incidents of possible racism? The vast majority of Vietnam vets choose to treat her as just another thing they will not support because they disagree with her actions.
No one blames her for the war. That is ridiculous. Many have deep resentment for her actions during the war. In a free country, that is their right.
A VERY small minority take it too far. In the case of the guy spitting on her I hope he was charged with assault. Outside of actions such as that, any other protest or boycott that is peaceful is simply Americans choosing the exercise their first Amendment rights just as she choose to do thirty plus years ago.
Should they forgive her. That is up to them. However, consider this:
How many people do you know that still held Nixon in contempt all the way up to the day he died and beyond?